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If a guy texts you a lot does that mean he likes you?

I have known this guy since college started this year, which was about four months.

We didn't talk much at first but a couple weeks ago we meet in the study room, later on that night I face booked him a message and he replied, our conversation (which was random topics lol) lasted for a couple hours.
Then he gave me his number the next day through facebook.

I txted him back and we talked every now and then. He now messages me everyday (usually first) such as whats up? Or how you doin?

And we went out to eat at campus twice (he invited me to both and I picked the first place)and we went to the library yesterday ( told him I needed to do math because he asked if I wanted to hang out with him) together to work on math. He likes to tell stories and makes me laugh all the time. He laughs at my stories too and when we look at each other he tends to hold my gaze while I look away.
Does he really like me? Or is this something else?

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This is exactly what happened with me too, I have a same kind of friend and exactly the same detail your saying. Well I think he likes you because I'm pretty sure my friend does too. He asked me out but I said no and he kept asking to hang out. Sometimes he jokes around in his texts saying I wish u were my wife or something related. Anyway I'm pretty sure he has something towards you, if not that he likes you but he does have some feeling for you. :)

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That's cool, thanks for the detailed response =) He hasn't ever said anything about being a future wife XD but we joke around a lot like old buddies or whatever haha
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He likes you lol

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He likes you

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yess yess he doess! congrats
lol

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I'm a guy and that sounds like he likes you. You're in luck, he hasn't really hit on your hard core or jumped in your pants yet so it sounds like you've found a good guy and someone who's truely interested in you. (I dont know the whole story though)

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yay =) well the story isn't that big yet since we don't know each other very well for the moment. And I'm trying to take it slow to see if it really is the real thing.
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He could be gay and you are a great friend...just saying. Not everything means something deeper, especially to guys who like being around someone who is easy to be with.

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I do agree, not every sweet text or some move he does or something he says could mean he likes you. He might only be trying to get your attention or he's just joking. So just don't be easy, and if he really did like he will want you more.
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That would be disappointing, but if he is then I would have a great friend to hang out with =)
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Obviously, he can't get you off his mind. You gotta think this one out to see where it leads. :)

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Why would he promote so much contact if he didn't like you?

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It sounds like he does like you. But don't make the most common mistake which is to move too fast. Guys tend to want to spend a lot of time at first then get bored. Have you ever gotten the speech "we moved to fast." or "it's not you it's me, I just don't feel it anymore "? That can be avoided and you can easily hold his interest by keeping things slow. Don't answer his texts immediately. Wait about 15 min or so. Don't go out with him 2 days in a row. Tell him you have plans when he asks you for the second day but tell him you'd like to do something just another day and make the date for a few days ahead. Don't tell him what your plans are. Even if it's just calling your mother or getting a manicure it's still "plans" and he doesn't need to know what they are.
Some people may think this is a form of game playing but I see it as keeping things at a good pace while still showing interest. And while we're on the subject of pacing ourselves, ABSOLUTELY NO SEX FOR AT LEAST 3 MONTHS!

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Ahaha I love this. Thank you so much!! Yes I have been doing some of those things without realizing it. XD And maybe he is doing that with me as well. Interesting, I'll def. take your comment in consideration. No worries on the sex I want to stay focused on college for awile before getting into anything major. =P Thanks again!! =))
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Thats so mean but im sure it works
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I would say He's Flirting with you ;)

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Somebodys gotta crush!!!!!!! Good job

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he likes you!

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