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Is my ex just keeping me as someone to hook up with? or is he genuinely sorry?

after no contact for a month, my ex texted me and said sorry that he was a jerk to me and that he ended things badly. he said he wants to be friends but not get back together. and I said okay to being friends and he asked me how my summer is going and everything. so is he keeping me around? should I not talk to him? I just don't want him to mess with my head. I don't know what to do

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Don't sleep (or kiss or anything)with him and you will have your answer in a month. If he is around he sorry, if not you know it was a game.

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I think your ex is not genuinely sorry. After not contacting you for a whole month, the least he could have done is talk to you in person and apologize or even call instead of texting. However, if he wants to be friends with you and you are comfortable, then you should go ahead. If you are not, just let him know and move on with your life.

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well, more than likely trying to keep you around for someone to fall back on if no nasty for awhile

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You know in your heart what to do. Just do it. Your ex needs to stay an ex.

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He needs to move on. But if you still have feelings for him then tell him how you feel. If you don't care then don't contact him EVER again..

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It's time to move on n tell him get lost .

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