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Feel pregnant, 4 days late, negative test?

I have been trying to concieve for the last month, I removed my copper IUD about 5 weeks ago and I am 4 days late for my period. However, all the urine home pregnancy tests I have taken (even with morning urine) have come back negative but I have all the symptoms.

My symptoms include:
- Swollen breasts
- Darkening of the nipples
- Noticable blue veins in my breasts and dimpling
- Slightly sore uterus
- Pain after Orgasm
- bloating
- Constipation
- Headaches/Migraines
- Excessive sweating in my hands and feet
- Change in body odour
- Hot flashes
- Feeling cold more often
- Insomnia but over-exhaustion with the slightest physical activity
- Chest fluttering/palpitations
- Excessive salivation
- Mild nausea
- Stomach pain when I eat even just a few bites of certain foods
- Excessive weight loss over the last 4-5 months (45 pounds)
- Itchyness
- Mood swings

My doctor has sent me for blood work to see if its a possible thyroid condition but the blood tests have not returned yet. I have had frequent unprotected sex this month with my husband in the attempt to concieve but I dont understand why all the tests come back negative but I feel so pregnant. Please give me your insight.

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Tests can indeed be wrong...especially this early. Maybe you just aren't far enough along to have elevated HCG levels in your blood yet.
Sounds like you're wanting it to be positive, so I sincerely hope that it is!!
and btw...sounds like you have a lot of "positive" symptoms.

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go to the doctor

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After taking an "at home" pregnancy test,you must go to the doctor to confirm it.. because lots of people get false positives/negatives...

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false positives aren't common. you only get them if you've recently been prego or the test is faulty
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Go to the doctor and get a good pregnancy test there.

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Your IUD only came out recently. Your body likely is still adjusting its chemistry based on that, which may take longer than one typical menstrual cycle to sort itself back out. The weight loss can also be an indicator of something being adjusted in your body, and that would need to be accounted for and you'd need to ensure you're consuming the right nutrients first before trying to conceive.

I'd deeply suggest waiting for the blood tests to come back, and in the meantime, no longer trying to conceive until you know what's going on. Adding pregnancy on top of this may cause more problems or put you at greater risk of a first-trimester miscarriage.

And, as other people have mentioned, some at-home tests can not pick up pregnancy early on depending on your beta-hCG levels in your urine, and some women's bodies produce different amounts in the beginning. On that note, however, if you take one and you see a faint positive result, it is still a positive. You could perhaps try again with another test and see if a faint line appears. If still negative, you can try again in a week to see if your hormone levels doubled normally.

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My IUD was a non horomonal Paraguard (Copper IUD), which has no affect on my horomone levels. Doctor told me once its out my body should be able to concieve without waiting.
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I realise that, but a copper IUD still affects your uterine environment, making it inhospitable for pregnancy which is why it works. That chemistry still has to stabilise, and because I'm not sure how long that takes I'm going to err on the side of caution and account for that as a variable. Have you had a period since it came out?
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Yes, right on time last month. I removed it a week prior to my period and it came like clockwork.
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That's a good start!

However, it would still be wise to not try for a little while, and track your fertility and cycle lengths to see roughly where the best times to try are, and some of the research I'm doing right now suggests that it can take a few months for fertility to completely return. Miscarriage is still an option but don't dwell on it too much, since the stress can also aggravate it.

I wish you the best of luck!
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Thanks :)
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Ummm... I can't say all of those things don't point to pregnancy, but the weight loss over 4-5 months, when you have only been minus the iud for 5-ish weeks, is probably not a sign of pregnancy in your case. Pregnancy signs can be psychological. It is possible that you're pregnant, but if you're not at this time, don't give up hope. It's more likely than not it'll happen. Good luck. I wish you well.

He's right to check your thyroid, btw. Many of those symptoms do point to a high thyroid.

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I included the weight loss and every symptom I have in case someone who has been through this can relate or tell me if it could be something else. Thanks for your input :)
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Those symptoms you list can also be caused by other things. Is the nausea morning sickness or all day sickness? Most of the time, it's morning sickness which lasts for 3 months. The darkening of the nipples happens when you are 4 months pregnant (at least in my case). If you have some disease, it's better that you are not pregnant at the same time. Wait to get a diagnosis.

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The nausea is quite sporratic, if I eat certain foods (like dairy even though I've never been lactose intolerant), beans, or various other foods the nausea will occur but not to the point of puking. Just makes me feel like crap and my stomach ends up hurting considerably.
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The nausea also occurs when I haven't eaten at all and is accompanied with the excessive salivation.
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the symptoms could be drawn out pms especially if you recently got your iud out. hopefully the thyroid tests will be negative, but it would explain some of your symptoms.
good luck

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