My boyfriend constantly lies to me and turns everything into my fault we have been dating on and off for over 10 years.
He always comes back even if he's with someone. The other day he told me "I wish I could hold something so valuable to you that if you ever did this again I would destroy it. It would make you think before you acted. I know that sounds weird, but sometimes I wish I could hold collateral." That isn't normal is it?