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my friend won't listen to me or anybody else I've tried and tried to stop her with all my power from killing herself but she won't listen.She says it's all her moms fault for cheating on her dad then marrying the dude she cheated with.So now she hates her step-dad and to go along with that she has attempted it alot.plus her parents treat her badly and lie to her.but this this time she is serious.she said tommrrow is her last day on earth.im so sad right now.i love her and the last thing i want to do is call the cops on her.btw she is 15.I've tried and tried like I said I've before to stop her but she doesn't care anymore and tommrrow she is saying her goodbyes. she even has a boyfriend which makes it worse. I'm the only one who she has told about killing herself. :(

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tell her she is not alone, i feel the same way sometimes, it is not her fault what her mom did... she should understand that, and tell her that killing herself does take the pain away from her but gives others more pain then she felt. tell her if she ever wants to talk that she should talk to someone she trust or email me "rmjicecream189@gmail.com" there are also places online you can talk to and they can try to help :) good luck

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I've told her cousin which will go to her parents
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talkl her down she may feel like this now butt it will get better... its not always going to be easy but it will get better :) mikeman077 if you ever need to talk email me
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Thanks for your concern
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well i was in the same place she was and i never had someone like you there for me
:) now i am doing better
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That's great I know she will be mad at me for doing this but in the future she will thank me
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I think I saved her cause her mom called me talking about her killing herself and I told her everything and she thanked me for reaching out to her. :)
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Call her parents and let them know.

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honestly, CALL SOMEBODY RIGHT NOW. Tell your parents, along with maybe your city's or town's help center suicide hotline, but most importantly the police. Time is everything!!! She WILL thank you later for this, do it as quickly as you can!! Good luck...

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I'm telling her cousin which she will tell her parents
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no don't do just that, please call the police if her parents don't do anything ok? =(
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I will
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And I've also told her sister and best friend and I'm trying everything to let her parents know
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oh, okay, good luck
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Thanks,I think I saved her cause her mom called me about it and I told her everything and she thanked me for reaching out
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thats great =D keep alerted for anything in the future, maybe, but hopefully not
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Call the cops. This is serious.

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This sounds very serious so you shouldn't keep it to yourself definitely tell her parents!

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I'm telling her cousin which I know she will tell her parents
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First of all, I can't believe you went to the internet for something like this. Second of all, either call the cops or have her call 1-88-644-5886. If you call that, then there are people who can just talk to a person about their feelings, hardships, etc. Whatever you do, DO. NOT. LET. HER. KILL. HERSELF. There is so much in the world that she could see. Talk to her parents straightaway.

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I've told her cousin,sister,and best friend.and her best friend called her house and spoke to her and I'm still working with letting her other friends know so they can help cause I care about her
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That's good. What have the others done?
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Well her best friend called her mama then her mom called me asking about it and I told her everything so she thanked me for telling her,my friend was pissed at me for quite awhile but she is fine now.she still thinks about but then I say forget about it,think about something that makes you really happy.
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YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'M SO HAPPY AT ABOUT A STRANGER'S FRIEND NOT KILLING HERSELF and I don't know why!!!
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Yes very serious. If I were you, I would've done something the second I found out. Call somebody that will stop her, she will thank you later on in life.

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I've told her best friend,cousin,and sister
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