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Why does my Ex do this?

Well it's still summer but summer to me ends next Monday :( but besides that I started wondering about why my ex boyfriends does this to me... So here I go. I was his first girlfriend and we lasted for 6 months. Then he went out with another girl and then another. I was still single so he wasn't saying anything about me. But then I got a boyfriend and the first thing he tells me is how come you didn't tell me! And that I'm going to try to make you both split up. I asked why&he said I don't know. And then there was the Starr test. Me&my ex had to sit together.We started talking&joking around. But then he asked about my bf.He asked if I really love him & I said yes but then he said," Your bf spends more time with his girl friends than you.Not in a flirting way. Just hanging out." And after 10 min I realized he's right and he said I always am. But it's like he was trying to talk me out of my relationship with my bf! Help me!

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Girl...he's got a goal. That would be to mess with your relationships. Sure...he'll will date and do whatever, but when you date he's gonna be "so concerned" and will invent reasons to convince you to break up with whomever you're seeing...all the while laughing. You'd be better off by avoiding him.

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Thanks :) You really did help! :D
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You're welcome! :)
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Avoid him! Maybe he was dating other girls to try to make you jealous. Or he is a hypocrit.

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I would tolerate his behavior for about four seconds..(max)!!

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he still likes you even if it doesnt work between you two. obviously you wouldnt be hanging out with or talking to him if you didnt feel the same or feel something. the best thing to do is completely ignore him and not care what he does or says if you dont want to be bothered by the things he does

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Just refuse to talk to him and tell any new bfs about the situation up front so there are no misunderstandings

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He still has feelings for you

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