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Okay would you get back with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend if they cheat on you

what would you go back out with you ex boy or girlfriend

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Once and done for me. I don't give second chances when it comes to cheating.

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Yet you allllllllwaaaaayyyssss are cheating on me!!!! What's up with that??????? Double standard, huh?
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I just let you think that Ravin. It keeps you feisty.
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I'm TOO feisty for most. :/
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lol
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Everyone Says It Is Okay

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he has cheated more than once
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Of course it's not okay. I would not even continue to talk to that person.
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okay
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Everyone desevreves a second chance though
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well its been more than once
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Oh than deffintyly not
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Well you will eventually have to forgive them but if they really haven't changed no

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well he has not i walk (((in)))on him and my bestfriend .
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well no one deserves to be cheated on, ever. but if there's a reason to fight for the relationship, say you have a child, then its worth a shot to mend what's been damaged. but say. the reason is you love him/her and don't wanna be without them? then I don't think you should go back to him/her, because you deserve better, and chances are, they might go back to cheating

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we been together on and off for 5 years and he has a kid that ive took care of since he was 6months old so he kind of my kid
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whats do you think i do love him but i dont want the cheating anymore
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well just think of it this way. maybe he was a single parent for a reason? maybe you're not the first he's cheated on. just be honest with him with what you want and set restrictions! don't let him think that just Cuz you care about him and his kid that you're gonna put up with everything he does.
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I'm not saying you should, but sometimes its best to move on. on and off relationships don't work most of the time and they're a great deal of pain..
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okay thanks i never though he cheat on me after all we been throw but he did when his mom die and my dad took him in
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and to have my dad say lock the door next time it made me so dang mad i still love him but im done this time
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and the bad part is i dont even no how long that had been going on she told me she didnt like him that he was ugly and not he type
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well once people don't feel the same way they used they do mindless things :l I'm sure he still feels something for you since he doesn't have the balls to end it, but he shouldn't hurt you this way. don't take him back. you can do better sweetie(:
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well if she said that then she's obviously a slut. sorry but true. she sleeps with people she's not attracted to? okaii..?
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lol thanks
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don't let the time you've been together blind you either. The only thing that matters is that you gotta make sure that the mutual feeling is still there. you can't love a person that disrespects you.
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I no
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but im done this time
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So
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No. If they disrespect you enough to cheat on you, why would you want to be with them?

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Right!
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Ha! Ha ha ahaha ha. NO.

They lost they're chance to be with me, and would likely cheat again. I don't deserve that, and neither do you.

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what if y'all we together for 5 years on and off
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That makes no difference whatsoever. If you keep making excuses for him like this, just know that he will continue to cheat on you, and you will not be happy with him. Have some self-respect.
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well true i agree i am not gonna take him back i just want to no if i should once a cheated always a cheater and he is a lowlife to sleep with my bestfriend. when we started date my dad let him move in and he lived with my dad and my dad said next time lock the door im done this time
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Great answer and comment! 5 years or more...makes no difference...cheating wipes it all away!
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i just wanted to no i dont plan on take him back none of my friend like him or so i though but one of them did and the fact he sleep with my best friend made it worse so am i gonna take him back no and i goona be friend with her no im done i just felt like i need to ask that qustion
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Thanks, truckerlady it's so true.

I know I sounded harsh, bethany, but you are in control of who you choose to have a relationship with. I'm glad to hear you are going back to that scum :)
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lol well i have to see him every time i go to my fathers lol i dont plan on getting back with him he is a dumb butt for cheated and he sleep with her in my bed so he bought me a new bed
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and the only thing my dad said to him was lock the door next time
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Wow, loser dad!
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lol
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No, not at all. Then again, I would never get back with my ex girlfriend anyway.

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i dont plan on getting back with him he sleep with my BestFriend or i thogh was my Best Friend
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Well it depends on how long you two been together and the love that is really there

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5 years on and off but now there ant no love after finding him in bed with my best friend
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oohh now your best friend that is different. Yeah maybe you should leave
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Yep
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No way !!!! He cheated on you that mean HE LOVE SOMEONE ELSE !!!

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i dont blevie he loves her i believe he just wanted more than what he was getting
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Cheating does NOT often involve love.
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okay listebn he had sex with my best friend
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he had sex with my best friend in my bed
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Omg I'm sorry to hear that.If somone did that to me, Their face would be bffs witg my fists
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lol he had $400 tires go missing . each tire cost $400
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what he told me
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follow your heart I've been cheated on n I wouldn't go back but follow your heart

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im not going back because he only gonna keep cheatin and it goona be alot worse this time ill chose to move on with my life and find someone better
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Well for me it depends on the history together. If you're together a long time with no major relationship issues then this is like a speed bump. I was in this position after 17 years. I was even ok with overlooking a "fling" figured it natural to be attracted to others and be curious about being with others and after 17 years with same person in was willing to overlook it. But there's a difference between sleeping with another person one time and giving up the life you've made and restarting with another person. To me the s*x wasn't as much cheating as the private phone calls, the texts, abandoning your family to make plans with another man, and basically realizing she had formed a relationship with him. That's what made it not worth forgiving.

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umm no he ((((((( sleep))))))) with her
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Never: once a cheater, always a cheater.

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Absolutely not, once a cheater always a cheater.
Example : Every time my "dad" got re-married, they'd always end up getting divorce because he'd cheated on each one with 30+ girls.

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Ummm the nice way of putting this...hmmmm...NEVER NEVER NEVER!!!!!

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Kind of like walking back into a burning building and expecting the fire to behave itself.

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Heck No! once a cheat always a cheat... don't believe anything else.

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dont plan on it im done
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Good for you :) you deserve better! and believe they will regret it.. make sure they know you are ok and that life goes on.. cause that will piss them off.. hahahha :)
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lol i am i brough home a friend and act like we were goin out
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I'd say no simply because they could do it again even though promising they wont

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