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My ex boyfriend wants me back but he calls me bad names what should i do? get back with him or not?

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Don't even think about it. If he can't even respect you enough to call you nice names you're better off without him.

Go find yourself a real man.

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Fantastic answer
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Thanks Savannah.
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no one should call anyone bad names. Dont take him. Hes probly one of those selfish ones who dont care about anyone or anything.

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Anytime C:
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Don't get back with him there were reasons ya'll broke up. Its not right he calls you names its disrespectful. Your better without him. Hope all works out.

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JuanRodriguez

no cuz he doesnt show you dat he loves you and doesnt show that really wants u back

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welcome no problem
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Your ex is listening to advice that is actually pretty common. Treating girls like they're trash and not worthy of your time makes them want you more. It's a real thing. Bad boys get the girls.

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not always thats why im loking for the good guys
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That's so sad that women will let themselves be treated like crap to have a BF.
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Girls have some 'splaining to do. Why are guys who treat women with love and respect so undesirable?
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it would be a HORRIBLE decision taking him back. if he's doing that to get you back, just think of what he'll do to you when he does.

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dont go back 2 him cuz if you go back hin ago have some thing over you its best you move on and you will find some one who deserves you and love you for you

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you deserve better
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nadlydan

If he doesn't respect you, don't respect him! Or you could just do what you decide, but that would be wasting my time, by the way.

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Fa get that nicca he isn't worth ur time :)

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DO NOT, no matter what, take him back. He doesn't deserve you.
Good luck and I hope it works out!

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Absolutely not!

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If he mistreated you once before then chance are he will mistreat you again. You seem like a smart girl and that you don't want to put yourself back in that situation so don't. Your too young to feel stuck and too young to feel stuck in that type of relationship. ( I can tell you this, I dated this guy I knew for 7yrs he ended up cheating on me so I broke up with him,,... A little over a yr goes by an he calls me and tells me he wants me and my son back in his life and that when he thinks about his future he can't picture it with out us,.... So I took him back,.... 3 weeks later he's cheating on me and got some girl pregnant. I broke up with him again and never spoke with him after that) point is ppl dont change when put back in the same situations. Hope I helped a little.

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Find another boyfriend!

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No just keep it moving

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Girl, no way, why would you want him?!? He is not the guy, tell him NO and forget him! He is not worth you!! You will find someone else for you just look harder! Forget that guy! He was history, the future is a mystery! ;) but just dig deeper you'll get there

wow this is ask.com and now it's like a whole soap opera ;)

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No. You deserve someone that respects you. Not someone that beats you down with verbal abuse. Stay away please.

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no!

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Fart in his face when he calls you.

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tnt933

no. if he is abusive, aka in language , hes a jerk. hes a waste of your time! people need respect!

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What you need to think about is if he's calling you names now, what will he do later on down the road. physical abuse always starts w/ verbal abuse.

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No!!!!!!!

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no dont even think about it. if he is calling you anything bad out of your name. he is so not worth it.

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xXCourtneyXx

He is so not worth it, if he's abusive (language-wise). Find a better man than him :)

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