yea its different for everyone, some people can handle it ande others cant. for some couples its even allowed (open relationship), and in other couples its not only allowed but also preferred. each individual looks at it differently. however i do believe that once a cheater always a cheater.
Some people can change but every situation is different if this has happened more than once than you should get rid of him but if it's his 1st time I'd give him a chance to redeem himself. . .give him a chance to explain himself and make up for what he did. . .
Okay so if someone cheated on me, they would say "if you loved me you'd forgive me" and i would say "if you loved me, you wouldn't have done this." if they do it once, their more likely to do it again. And in the end they will say "i didn't know what I had until it was gone." okay lies because you also didn't know what you were missing until it got there. They chose to cheat on you... why would you forgive them?
He cheated; what does that say about his feelings for you? A guy like that isn't worth your time, yea it's painful to get over someone, especially if you've gone through so much together. But if he loved you he wouldn't have cheated. Get rid of that bastard
Cheating is cheating. If he does it once, he#039;ll do it again. Just realize that if he cheated he had no concern of how much it would hurt you or about your relationship. Let him know that you have too much respect for yourself to allow someone to treat you so disrespectedly. Find someone who treats you how you should be treated and values you & the relationship enough not to do something so callous. You deserve better.