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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, and in that interval we haven't fought even once. Is that weird?

I understand I should be happy, but I've heard that arguments can actually fortify a relationship. We get along so well to the point where we pretty much agree on everything together.

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My 6 months is only a week away and my boyfriend and I haven't fight once either! Glad you two are doing great!

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yes...doesn't sound like a relationship that is full of passion

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It sounds like you two get along really well! There is nothing to worry about, just realize that you are in the infatuation stage of your relationship. You might fight eventually, but why worry about that right now? Fighting does not fortify a relationship, but every couple does fight at some point. Enjoy what you have right now, and take things as they come. There's no need to worry about fighting TOO LITTLE :D

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Not weird at all! It's awesome really. I'm sure on down in your relationships, you will eventually have a fight. It's still early on in your relationship. My husband and I never fought when we were dating. We do now occasionally but nothing major. Don't let people tell you that not fighting is not normal. Enjoy it!!!

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No it sounds like you are doing great :)

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A great example of a relationship full of passion and true love is that in the Song of Solomon in the Bible. The Shulamite Maiden and the Shepherd Boy loved each other intensely but they did not fight all the time.Different personalities, being around each other a lot ,and learning one another's differences and similarities and quirks is what causes friction and arguing. However, you don't need to argue to really love one another. That is only Hollywood Romance that makes you think " oh they really love each other because they argue with such passion" .In reality love is not prideful and does not get provoked easily . A good relationship is based on a good friendship , and who wants to fight with their friend intentionally to prove that have a solid friendship? When problems arise you want to deal with them and move past conflict not use that to fortify your relationship. A relationship with a foundation of arguing is not a strong one.You will not continue to honestly agree on everything in time something will come up but you should not look forward to arguing. You should be prepared to lovingly and respectfully overcome arguments.

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Nine words that make a relationship strong are
I am sorry
I was wrong
Please forgive me
oh and pray together that is a very very intimate thing to share and build in a relationship.

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Stop biting your nails (pic) relax and why are you thinking of fighting. Just go with the flow.

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do you honestly agree on everything... or are you always just agreeing with him... ? I know what you mean.. cause I used to be in a relationship where we never fought.. but come to find out.. it was pretty much, because I agreed with him on most everything... either it wasn't a big deal, or I just didn't voice my opinion... and when I started too, we did argue.. but it still worked out...

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It's great that you don't fight and I think most couples go through a period of not fighting and yours just happens to be a little longer than most. You'll probably end up fighting and that may be soon, just don't get too upset about it because chances are you'll make up pretty soon later.

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Sometimes they do but other times it doesn't go so well and they end up not together. Its good you guys get along (:

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Sounds weird but it's not. Every relationship is different and yes while fighting suck getting though a fight with someone you love had a lot of benefits. My experience when my wife and I first started dating. The first 2 years of our relationship we didn't fight at all. Lol but now we fight lol

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