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How do I ask this girl out if she has her targets set for my best friend

like her a lot for a while now and have been helping her get my best friend to like her but I secretly like her and want to ask her out myself

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You dont!!!

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i suggest that u just ask her out that's wat i do

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Well you gotta be a charmer be sweet say I know u may have your hopes up for somebody else but as long as we've been friends I've always liked you and I can't go on without telling you atleast that see I that gets you anywhere

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I like that one
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Nice
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Thanks I try
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Just talk to her tell her the truth before she goes with your friend, once she goes with your friend it will be a little late to tell her.

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does she know how you feel?

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Not really she's had her suspicion but idk if she does actually know
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U don't

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Well let me tell you, you screwed up. Why would you try to fix them up if you want her for yourself ? Pure gonna hurt your best friend of you keep her when he's starting to like her. You gotta talk to your friend first and male this "secret" known. If he is okay with you asking her out then go for it. If not then neither should have her. Move on. There's plenty of girls out there. Good luck (:

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Well u see my friend wants nothing to deal with her which is weird because there so much a like
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Well still make sure its cool with him.
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when it comes to the opposite sex, if there set on someone else then there is little you can do until they get what they want. sometimes it's not exactly what they want either so be patient. she might see what she wants within you later.

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Just be careful because she can be the type to jst want a bf or something so she might "settle" for you. But if she hasn't shown interest then dnt waste your time and stop helping her out with your BFF cause she's for 1. Using you and 2. Does he even like her??

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See originally I don't know what I was thinking when u told her I would help her she didn't even ask me to and no my best friend doesn't like her
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I know what you were thinking, you'd pretty much do almost anything for her. And it lets you get close to her. I say talk to her and tell her how you feel or maybe enlist the help of your own friend
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Go for it and don't care what she says.

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Well start to become friends with her and make her like you better than your friend. Talk about the connections you two have together.

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Try complimenting her every once in a while. Say here hair is pretty or that her shoes or purse is cute. If you don't want to ask her out right to her
face, write her a note. Make it say, i like you and I was wondering if u liked me? Or something like that And then put ur name on the bottom of the
Note.

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Note? What is this grade school?
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Act like a douche. ( your friend.)

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Yeah if your my friend then who this
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You don't!

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I've done that too, but i've done it cause i rather have
him be happy. it's for a good cause but you get yourself hurt too :/

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Amen to that :) but hopefully I will get the answer I will like and she will be happy cause she finally found someone
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Exactly, you just have to make sure you show your interest in her too. She'll never know unless you tell her. Good luck (:
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you might just wanna let it go and find another girl:/sorry!

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Well, first off you have to be gentle... Don't try to be cool or curse a lot infront of her. When you talk to her, let her tell you about herself first, and always reply positivly. When she's done, don't start talking about yourself unless she asks you. Point out similarities between the two of you and laugh when she says something funny. Brush by her in the hallway and hang out with her group of friends. But don't use your other friend as backup. Don't let him come with you to hang out with her. She will soon forget about him and like you. Remember to shower everyday, wear deoderent, brush your teeth and use breathmints. Grow your hair out so you can flip it and that is really hot!!! Remember this and she will run for you;) hope this helps!

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Long hair really works lol I don't think I have ever grown my hair out but I get the idea and thanks for the advise
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Sure;)
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You don't.

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