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Why cant I stop having feelings for someone?

so this has been going on for a good two years now. I dated this guy for about a month and then we broke up. I still have feelings for him and they just wont go away. I go around pretending I hate him but it doesn't help when he constantly stares at me and asks my friends how i'm doing. I realy just want to get him off my mind but no matter how hard I try I can't.

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Feelings aren't something you can just turn off . Give it time and stay busy ... If you like him why act like you hate him ? If your just not ready to date or have a boyfriend just tell him your not ready.

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You can't help who you have a crush on or who you have feelings for. Maybe you should talk to him about it.

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I have had this happen to me about this I girl I know, but then I realized that you can't just flip your feelings off like a light switch. You just have to be "busy" with other things.

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Maybe it is called infatuation. Sounds like you need to move on with your life even tho this guy stares at you. If he wanted to date you, he would call. Four weeks of dating is not a long time to pine for anyone. You would do best if you found another guy because you would realize you were missing him because you wanted a boyfriend. Once you get involved in something else, might be volunteer work, school projects etc, you will realize you really don't miss him. Time makes all the difference. Two years is more than one should be thinking of a 4 week fling..Get busy gal and move on. Your life is not all about him. You will become a stronger person for taking control.
All the best.

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