Just tell her how you feel. Tell her it's childish to act the way she is. If she really likes you and understands you aren't happy in this relationship shouldn't she let you go and be happy? Tell her you still care for her but only as a friend. Maybe you can be her friend for a while until she realizes nothing is going to happen between you guys anymore. Hope I helped :)
Talk to your school counselor! This stuff is serious. She is holding you responsible for her actions and it is clear she needs professional help. Please share this with her family and the school. Good luck.
My boyfriend said the same thing. He didn't do it. Not to say that you shouldn't take her seriously. I would tell her parents before you break up with her so they can keep an eye on her. It may sound cruel, but you'll feel a heck of a lot worse if you don't and something happens to her.
Well, your stuck, if you leave her, she kills herself but try to make it not as bad, but, it's hard to answer this, why don't you want to be with her if its because of this , that's sad, we need people that can help her be her friend try to make her feel happy, don't break up because if she's that commited to the relationship I think you should stay, but f you really want to break up with you, go to someone you trust, or go to a therapist, and talk about the deal, and on what you need to do! Sorry I can't give a straight forward answer!! I would love to help. I have helped a lot of people with Sucides, with the theater shooting on Colorado, but it's hard for to answer that! Hard for a 13 yr old to come out with a good answer to this.. :/ good luck bro _| thumbs up<< I hope everything works out for you I i will pray for you decision and I will also pray for her, hopefully good can lead her the right way!
is she like seriously. gonna. kill. herself. Tell her: "You cant take away your life for a person who doesnt want you anymore. Its life! Their is love and lost. This was love turned into lost. I love you too much for you to kill yourself." But say it in a nice lovely way.
First of all, I'm sorry to say, but she needs psychological help. No person in their right mind bring up suicidal thoughts. Seek help for her, I would recommend being there for her while she is being treated, once she is in the process of recuperating she will slowly develop a sense of reality. Be patient, it takes time to stop loving someone.
This is often an immature attempt at manipulation to get what you want. You hope they fall for it cuz your desperate . However that turns people off. The instability you see is enough to make you think you want to run. She is creating what she fears turning you off when she fears losing you. You cannot be responsible for her emotional state. You could call her parents and tell them that she has threaten ended you this way and you want them to be aware because your pulling away from the relationship is due to her unpredictable behavior. You can't hold someone as an emotional hostage. And expect them to stay with you.
My advice: talk to a professional, man! This is a huge problem that's only going to get bigger if you don't get someone to help you. She's probably just bluffing or faking, but it doesn't hurt to be prepared. Girlfriends like that are trouble, so pick better next time.
i have depression problems and i used to/will say that im going to kill myself and i have a friend that will say that to but to tell you the truth its really scary even just think/planing it so i know i wont and most people wont because its scary too so just tell her gently that its over
I had a ex bf do that to me it sucked he'd tweet about cutting and post photos of other people's wrists slit and I was worried so i stayed with him in hind sight that wasn't the smart thing to do I should've left him for good but honestly you deserve to be happy too and people like that are either making you feel guilty or need serious help from counselors
I am an adult now. I was in the same situation when I was in high school and college. I dated my boyfriend years longer that I really wanted to because I cared about him and didn't want to be responsible for his death. I let it go on for years because I didn't know how to end it. I wasn't very close with my mother, but I ultimately confided in her. I ended the relationship with my family's help and ultimately his family's help. I see some people think your girlfriend is bluffing, but maybe she is not! This is a problem that you CAN'T AND SHOULDN'T by yourself. Someone else will need to monitor your girlfriend after you end the relationship and make sure she doesn't commit suicide. If you are still in school, talk to a school counselor. Talk to your parents. Some parents are helpful and some are not. If your parents don't take this seriously find an adult who can help you and will take this problem seriously. You deserve to be happy!!!! I felt very guilty for a long period of time for ending the relationship. I no longer speak to my ex-boyfriend, but I heard he is now happily married with children. So I am.
....You should break up with her.. she needs to get over herself. Odds are you guys are like 16 at the oldest and you both need to realize (at least she does anyway) that you don't just find your soul mate at 16. There are more fish in the sea... I honestly think she is overreacting.. And no, I really don't think she'll kill herself. Just give her some flavor suggestions for Ben and Jerry's :3 and tell her that you just want to be friends. :) Good Luck.
Most likely she is lying and she's only saying that to keep you around. In all honesty, you can't just stick around in a relationship that you are miserable in. Just leave her. be as gental as you can, and break up with her. she will get over it in a few weeks or so. and you will see that she is still alive. that is just a childish cry for attention and she isnt really gonna do it. trust me, MANY of teens have done the same thing.