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What should I do about this guy who supposedly has a crush on me? Help please

Friend of a friend that I've hung out around a few times supposedly has a crush on me and thinks I'm cute. My mutual friend told me. When I asked why he hasn't really reached out to me, my friend just said he was being a wuss. Days later I said again that this guy hasn't said anything. My friend reiterated the wuss thing again and that he might say something to me and he might not. I told my friend I think his friend is cute, don't know if I have a crush on him though. We have major differences between us but id look past it to get to know him more. But I want to be the person pursued for once & idk if I want to try when he so far isn't. Should I reach out to him and get to know him or should I just wait and see if he does something and wait even though I hate waiting, and let things happen however they happen. I just was excited to finally see a guy like me first. I've dated a few guys but it always seemed like me pursuing them first, so that is why I say that. I'm confused and the more I think about it the more I'll convince myself I have a crush on him. Please help

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He might be different from the guys you have dated. Since you hate waiting, you can approach him first to both share your feelings. However, if you feel you want it different this time round, then you can hang on and wait for him. this would be risky as some girl can catch him first before you do.

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Depends how much you like this guy, and how willing you are to wait. But since you don't like waiting, I would say to just be simple and slow pretend he is a new kid at school and is very shy and you have to show him the way. Just be careful and don't get locked down on a maybe person.

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You should reach out to him get to know him. If you like him, ask him if he likes you. If he does yay!

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