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I have a fear of talking to new and best friends in public, especially women.

when I'm in public with lots of strangers around me, I tend to close myself from friends or new people. I fear that if I act like myself around my friends and new people in public, including women, that ill be judged. I think people will think I'm weird talking when everyone else is quiet. this has made it difficult for me to meet new people as well as women. I want to know if anyone else feels this way, and I know it's rediculous. the answer I'm look for is to be told that its ok to do these things while in public even when everyone is silent.

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It's OK ! Anyone that judges people , isn't worth knowing anyhow! It's OK to talk when others are silent. Women like to be talked too! Have no fear, just be yourself !

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You don't need us to say it's ok. Just do it, it's not like you're hurting someone. You only have one life...

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it's social anxiety. I have it myself. but it's not all bad all the time. I actually enjoy being socially awkward sometimes, especially with people of a lower intelligence, I find it can be hilarious. it's like the funniest thing in the world when I say something and no one gets it then I start laughing, everyone looks at me like I'm crazy then just the looks on thier faces makes me laugh even harder lol just be yourself and have fun with it. you don't need to be excepted by a crowd, as long as you except you that's all that matters :)

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