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How can I go from girl friend to girlfriend?

I have been friends with a woman/girl since high school.

She had a boyfriend in high school who is my friend.

My friend and this woman/girl I have met since high school broke up in 2011.

In 2012, I began messaging the ex-girlfriend of my friend through Facebook.

I have a crush on her, and unfortunately it is wrong to date your friend's ex.

Although, he did say to me that he is no longer interested in her.

I asked my woman/girl friend if should be interested in someone like me, and she said as a nice guy, but not in me since me and her are friends...

I have only hung out once with her and have mainly been texting her...

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Just dont get your hopes up with this girl if she says no, Or not a chance then just forget about her and move along. If she says we can still be friends it'll just put something awkward in between that day and you still have chance just try again when you have known her for about a few months and have actually talked to her about everyday. If none of this works then she might not be the girl/Woman for you

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dump one and ask the other one out.

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wut?

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Be friend s then BFF and then. Be her bf ?!

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i dont think you should do it just because she may not be over your friend. that could be a little mess.

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just keep talking to her bro... hell it's not right to be dating your friend's ex but if he's fine with it, then why the hell not right? just wait until you guys are closer to ask her out or anything because if you only hung out once... then you're gonna wanna get closer before you ask her to be your girlfriend or anything... Hope this helps! Cx

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Dont be pushy. Mabye the feelings she has for you are only friendly feelings. If i were you, i would suggest a relationship and if she declines it then it may just be that

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first make sure your friend is okay with you telling her about your feelings. Then you should tell her, in person.

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Once a girl places you on that friend box than it's really hard to become anything more. If you do bridge that gap it will likely be some impulsive fling on her part more than something she would consider whilst sober.

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Hey, if ya like this person go for it. Or you will regret at least trying.

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