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Last edited at 7:57PM on 9/3/2013
In your photo you appear to be a PYT. Yet your question suggests that you are demure sweet & not conceited. If a guy is paying attention to you usually means that he likes you. Otherwise he wouldn't be spending time w/ you. When I was younger I had similar situations, only to find out later (after one of us has a boy/girlfriend) that he did like me. Young men like to play it cool because they are more afraid of rejection than you think. So unless he's asking about one of your friends excessively chances are he's interested. When I was allowed to go on my first real date (sophomore year) my date brought me home after a movie I asked him, "So are you going to kiss me or do I have to lie to my diary?" Sometimes being direct pays off in whatever style is works for you. If it becomes uncomfortable you can always playfully hit him & tell him your just messing w/him. Either way you'll have your answer. Good luck. Z
MIxed signals mean one of 3 things... 1) Not interested, 2) Interested in a booty call and wanting to keep you off balance as a back up plan, 3) Too shy to let you know. Normally...one of those 3 apply when the signals seem mixed.