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rickywade

She just kissed her ex in front of me on the last day of school. I've been ignoring her calls and this came up. Now I don't know what to do?

I know you don't want to talk to me but please just read this. I'm so sorry I mean it I am so sorry. I know you hate me but please forgive me. I can't live without you, you are seriously my everything. I have never felt this way about anyone before and I truly mean that. I love you more than anything in the whole world and I want you to know that. I would do anything in the world to make this better, I'm begging you to please forgive me. I'll give you as much time as you need but I want nothing else but to be with you and only you. You are the only one that I want and nobody else. So please forgive me Ricky. I love you???? "Please note we've been together for 5 years and we truly to love each other. Please help."

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Everybody makes mistakes, everybody! What's important is not that we've made a mistake as much as what do we do about it. She is acknowledging that she made a mistake, she is telling you she loves you, and she is asking for forgiveness. She's not blaming anyone but herself, she's really sorry. If you can find it in your heart to forgive her, do it. Love doesn't come along every day, and everybody has warts, even you, Dear, if you love her and care about her, forgive her. Let it go, really, really let it go. It isn't really a big deal if you think about it, it's just a kiss. Stupid mistake, but not like she got naked with him or anything. Stupid mistake, like Shakespeare said, "To err is human, to forgive is divine." I hope you give her another chance, sounds like she's learned her lesson.

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And did you give her another chance?
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You should be concerned if you really love her. This is because she should not be seeing the ex without you if she claims he wasn't treating her well. You need to make her understand that you do not approve of their relationship and if she loves and respects you, she will stop.

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She says it will never happen again. It makes me angry because I told her not to talk to him before 3 times and she said she never would again each time. I went home and she cried for hours that she was sorry and that no matter what she will always love me. This is a hard one.
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Reply saying: why did you kiss your ex? See what she says. If you are meant to be, it will work out and she should NOT be cheating. If you're angry, let her know. Tell her how you feel and let her know it was not okay to do what she did

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I was going to say the same thing.
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Say no girls think about the most puny thing in the world and dont mean it its true :/ happened to me

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Give her a chance people make mistakes

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Either...
1. She has very little self control and is likely to cheat again because of this
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2. She doesn't love you and is still stuck on her ex

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Find a better woman that has respect for people...

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Right.
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The thing is that they have a kid.
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You found the wrong woman...
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U deserve better than her

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The letter U deserves better? Perhaps, U and V belong together, perhaps YOU is what you meant.
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Is that kid on your profile picture yours? If both of you are the parents, try an forgive her, give her another chance, if not, get away, IT'S A TRAP!

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Yes it is
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Stay with her, try to work things out, kids grow up better if the parents are together.
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Thanks.
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Thats a good question.... what to do??
I guess keep ignoring her until she comes up to you face to face. And if she seems legit then maybe.

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It's up to you.but if you let her in your life again just make sure you've kind of forgiven her already since it won't be fair if you're still gonna throw her the mistakes he has done from the past.but if you think you can't forgive her right now, don't do it.cause it's just gonna hurt you more making your doubts go on and on again.

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If it was High School drama I would say dump her, but you two have a kid and that child deserves to have both her parents, who love and are devoted to eachother, to care for her. You two have been together 5 years, and this little girl seems pretty old like 4? I would wait a few months to let this cool off and trust be reestablished. But you need to let her know that she needs to think before she acts because that was not okay, especially if you two have been together so long. But once you feel like your ready then think of the possibility of marriage. You beautiful daughter deserves that and maybe that's part of the reason your girlfriend acted out. Maybe she wanted more and thought your relationship was too slow. Maybe she wants commitment, which sounds odd with the fact that she kissed her ex. You really need to talk to her about this, not us.

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Good advice!
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I come up with my beat when I'm half asleep ;)
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*best
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Lol.
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Thank you
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Well, ya'll ain't married so get over it if ya wanna be with this person.

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