How does the world expect a man whose wife divorced him to pay for two households.
My wife divorced me 7 years ago and got married to her now husband a month after our divorce. I did not know she already had a guy when we where divorcing so I gave her everything the car, the house, she had been out of work and was being a mom and mother to my 4 kids. So I knew it would be hard on her to restart. the thing is i had to start working two full time jobs one to pay my child support of 980 dollars a month and another to help support my new house hold. I see no end and I am getting tired. It's odd it's like I am forced to pay her money not to see my kids. Just to let you in on my life. I go to almost every football game, track meet and soccer game. I have never missed a single child support payment. I just feel like my life was taken away. I don't see why the government doe's not make people of divorce pay their own bills in their own house holds and the kids would just spend their time with what ever parent they want or most comfortable.