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Why won't he text me back?

ok so I like this guy, he's on my bus so I over heard him say he likes me but he won't text me back and at school I always find him trying to be around me and looking at me. This isnt a bad this but I don't know what to think. I would also like to add I don't think he knows I like him back

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call him instead of text..

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Guys don't always answer texts.. It's normal. No worries(: just be patient

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he is not interested

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Perhaps he's busy with life?

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Well first off, you can never be too sure of what you heard. Second, if you text him too often or are everywhere that he is, obviously he'll look and he might be a bit annoyed if you text him too much- so don't do that :) And if it's not what you heard, then it's okay! Just move on to someone who is actually worth your time :)

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I forgot to say, haha, orrrrrrr he could just be imberresed that you overheard him and doesn't want to talk to you yet because he's too shy and won't know what to say :) There's two ways you can think of this.
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You could call him. Maybe he's busy not everyone can reply to a text in the blink of an eye nor does text often.

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Maybe he's afraid to text you back, like if he's nervous to talk to you.

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Out of battery?

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He's too young, he's scared to death. Pretty sad when kids are scared to TEXT each other.

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Before doing something, first try to contact him in another way. If this doesn't work then you should try being nice with him and flirting to see if he will flirt back, blush, or something. Though some guys might be harder to find whether they like you or not. If he doesn't flirt back he might just be too shy or not understand the flirt. If this seems too much, I recommend you just go up to him and ask him, don't be afraid to be rejected!!!!! It's better to be rejected than to never have tried at all!!! Trust me on that! It would suck really bad if you go to Heaven and you find out he had feelings for you and you realize you could've had a good time with him!

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What grade are you in? Things could be different for different grades
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shyness

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Ok I had the same thing happen to me last summer, if you go and look at my old questions its pretty pathetic... Anyways make sure you are positive about how you are reading the signs. I don't want you to get burned like I did it sucks. Just be really sure he likes you and it's not just in your head. Best of luck to you!

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you assume the worst when he doesn't text you back. Try not to think about him and you'll find that he probably will text you back.

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