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Ultimatley,who's responsible to make sure condoms are used? What if she makes it an ordeal,actually difficult?

She is eager to anitiate sex while im unprotected. Sometimes I literally have to push her away to get to a rubber. Whats up w/that,could it be attempted prego lockdown on me? Were using them 2/3 times in a good day. What can I do to make it a consistant thing? Im not ready for a child & most the time I cant resist:(...shes NOT helping

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You better take care of business yourself, unless you want to be a daddy real soon. I think she's trying to seal the deal, if you know what I'm saying. Think with the head on your shoulders! Hope it's not too late.

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sounds like she wants the infamous baby bump

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Right! Whatta sick world
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That's exactly what I thought.
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Both partners are responsible to make sure that condoms are used. It normally depends with the kind of agreement the two of you have as partners and whether you are ready for pregnancy or not. In other cases, the one who initiates intimacy is responsible for making sure condoms are used.

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If a baby were to be born, the responsibility falls on the both of you. If you contract an STD, it's your responsibility. If she contracts an STD, it's her responsibility.
What can you do? Masturbate more and your sex drive won't be as high and you will be able to resist. Or simply refuse to have sex w/out a condom.

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Sounds like you need to have a serious conversation when no one is aroused. A baby is a big responsibility not to be taken lightly. If you don't want one as part of your life you need to take responsibility 100% of the time. 2/3 is NOT enough!

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Get a vasectomy...no way will she trick you into having a baby. As to whose responsibility it is...it takes two to tango. Everybody should be responsible for their own actions. It's always a good idea to cover your own a**.

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If you get her pregnant, you are responsible.

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Just say no unless she lets you use one! Sounds like she wants to get pregnant!!!

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Now a days I think it's both of your responsibility, that is if you are not in a committed relationship and are planning to have children.

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Protect yourself if she's not being responsible,her lack of maturity and common sense will show up in most other situations, you'll notice. She wants commitment and thinks this is how she'll get it. Run.

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Totally agree !!! My ex boyfriend found out a few night stands made a baby a year later.. We unfortunately didn't make it as a result if his complete emotional meltdown. Save your self the agony and grief and worry. Tell her your using them or dumping her for someone who will respect you.
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Exactly K!
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That's how I got my first kid. And my second.

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Uh huh!
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Well , since she is unconcerned. It would be wise that u take care of it . If stopping for a sec is a mood killer for her to bad ! Best of luck

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