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My boyfriend has two Facebook accounts. One with me on it and the other I'm blocked. He calls me crazy for thinking crazy but.....

That to me makes me think he's hiding something. When I found out about it from a mutual friend he denied it then deactivated it. Everytime we have our problems he opens it backs up and talks his shit. He thinks I'm insecure and crazy for thinking to much about it but I have no trust and worry.

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He calls you crazy because he doesn't have what it takes to man up and be truthful. For all you know he is using the other Facebook for another girlfriend. You're NOT crazy. I do think he's not worth you though.

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i dont know much about relatinships but that to me sounds rude and mean

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You're right!
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Agreed. It is mean. And disrespectful.
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I think that you are insecure because your boyfriend has given you reasons to be. If he has two Facebook accounts and is not hiding anything from you, then he should't have blocked you in one account. However, you should also allow him to enjoy some of his privacy because if you pry so much, it creates trust issues in the relationship.

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But when girls don't snoop they never find out he's cheating
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The more trouble someone goes through to hide something the worse the secret. This guy is pulling some shady stuff. Who knows what else this guy is doing on Facebook if he's trying that hard to keep it a secret. He probably talks to people posing as a 14 year old girl or something.

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Excellent point!
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Yes thank u! Coming from a guys point if view also helps even more. I've seen his other fb before and went through it. This is why it bothers me so much cause if I did something like that I would be done!
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Yea some people are like this. They do something to you yet if you did the same thing to them they would flip out. These people are so selfish, into themselves and their own needs its almost impossible for them to consider anyone else's feeling. Either that or they do know your feelings and they just don't give a crap.
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thats messed up his playing stupid games... his giving you reasons to be insecure .....

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Exactly!
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Great point!
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That's him! Always playing games. Guess this makes moving out a lot easier.
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yeah good luck
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Well it's quite obvious what he is doing. And let's be honest...deep down you know why he is doing this. He doesn't care about you. You deserve a man...not an immature little boy. I would move on and find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

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Right on!
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Yes! Agreed. Thank u
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No worries! Good luck.
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TruckerLady's right. He needs to man up, not run away and rant on Facebook. I also doubt his second account is just for ranting... Tell him you don't want to play games anymore, you're adults, and walk.

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Excellent answer! 8)
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Thank u. Agreed
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Thank ya!
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I wouldn't stay with someone that I couldn't trust. Ever. I'd rather be alone, than put up with that.

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Amen sista!
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8)!
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amen
what were we praying
ooooh dear Lord these things i prayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
to see things more clearlyyyyyyyyyy
that one?
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create boundaries
first for you.. respect you
then you two.. he must buy in
he wont like you drawing your line
to what extent will determine whether he is worth staying with
his leash would not only be short.. but he would need to replace his "drug" with other
unlikely. sorry.. just is

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