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Meet guys & get to know them. Ahh no but seriously you really don't need one in middle school. Focus on school now & boys later! You have your whole life ahead of you!

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All my friends have boyfriends and girlfriends
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If all your friends jump off a bridge, would you do it too?
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I hate to break it to you but that's just puppy love. It's not really considered a serious relationship especially at such a young age. I mean the only thing you could do is hold hands? You shouldn't even worry about boys until at least high school. At least then things could be more intense & "commited".
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U know y do they callit puppy love? When the grow in to dogs u forget about then?
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Make it obvious you like him. If he asks you out he likes you back. Unless you feel the need to ask him out although I as a guy prefer asking girls out not opposite.

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Talk to them

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You dont
Get your school work done n middle school!!!

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I like to simply talk to them in lunch or class. Also be yourself.

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i prefer until im done with college. hm maybe actually talk to em

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Middle school is hard to get friends just wait until high school

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Im_So_Innocent

You are so young to date. When I was in middle school all I worried about was pokemon cards and barbie dolls. Just be a kid :)

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Jessie1995
same here but only not in middle school, more elementary lol
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Im_So_Innocent
I seem so old in this answer.
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Im_So_Innocent
When I was like in 6th grade thats what I was into xD
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Jessie1995
yeah same here, only cuz i went to middle school at 7th grade hahaha
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Im_So_Innocent
I went to middle school in 5th grade. I was such a nerd back then :P
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Jessie1995
lol wow that's awesome! :D i didn't even know there was any middle school which started at 5th grader, that's cool lol
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i once wanted to get a bf in middle school, but trust me, it's not worth all the crying and heart breaking after it...UGH lol and since that year, i decided to never have a bf till i go to college, and yet it's my last year of HS! xD
u DON'T need to have a boyfriend in middle school because:
1. you will mostly get called slut
2. teachers won't like u anymore
3. everyone wants to talk about ur bf
4. even if ur bf changes the way they look at u, u will get ur heart broken so yeah
my advice: DON'T CARE about boys

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IGoByJessie

You shouldnt get one. Dating/bf and gf are designed to find ur husband/wife. I highly doubt you will find one this young. (im a freshmen)

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be funny hang with them during lunch and break before after school. But still middle school isn't a great idea

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Be a fun person. Be sexy. I'm 14. I know.

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But how ??
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Be yourself. Not something your not.
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Don't try anything more then twice. Use trial and error.
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DON'T. You're a kid, stop trying to grow up so fast.

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Motto: "Study first before pleasure, what is the use of beauty if the brain is empty." you can encounter too many suitors if ur good in academics.. :)

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Listen. Your in the age range of 10-14 probably. You don't need a boyfriend right now. Focus on your friends and school work. I'm 14 and in the 10th grade. Even now im too young. Boys our age aren't looking for love or you. They just want sex. My first boyfriend in 9th grade only dated me cause he wanted to have sex with me. When I said no he ended it. You don't need to deal with that. Let your self grow and find out who you really are and what you really want. You may really want one now... but their kind of useless right now. Just try not to grow up too fast. This world and some of the people in it are cruel. Don't expose your heart to someone that will just break it. You don't need a boyfriend.

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Happened to me too
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Yeah. It sucks :(
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Try to improve your closeness to your parents if you have good parents. Then you won't look for a boy to save you or to give you what you need.

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It's not even worth it to date boys in middle school, or high school. They're so immature. And they only have one thing on their minds. My advice, wait until you're out of college and they've hopefully grown up. School is more important, and the friendships you make!

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You shouldn't. You're too young. Just like them from a distance.

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If you really think you're responsible and mature enough to handle a relationship, you should know how to get a boyfriend lol. Sorry but I see these questions all the time, and it's not rocket science! You can befriend him first, or you could try flirting with him, or just come out and tell him how you feel. Good luck!

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A lot of people say you shouldn't date in middle school, but I really don't see the harm in it. As long as you don't get too serious, I think dating when you're young is totally fine. I got my first boyfriend when I was in seventh grade, and the farthest we ever went was holding hands, LOL. Just remember that it's not really possible to LOVE someone when you're 12 years old. Dating in middle school is more about curiosity and experience than anything else.

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Be yourself! Don't try and be someone your not. Let guys see the REAL you!:))

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Are you serious? How can you get a boy to date you? Say "who wants a girlfriend" and when every guy in the room raises his hand, take your pick.

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You should be focusing on your work, don't just go for it, get a little friend or something.

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First off, if he doesn't have ANY feelings for you now he probably never will (Don't worry there are plenty more fish in the sea). If he does have some sort of feelings for you here's how you make them grow. The first rule is to keep them chasing you. You can easily flip your situation by making yourself a lot less available. Make more plans with friends, try something new, join a club. They will start to wonder what you are doing now that you aren't chasing them and this is your opportunity to turn the tide. Plus, it will take your mind off of them for a bit, make you look more attractive and creates more options (Don't be closed to the possibility of meeting someone else you may like better!). Now, in making yourself unavailable it is CRUCIAL that your true intentions are not revealed. Don't avoid them, don't be catty just forget about them completely and just do what you normally do. If they like you (and they may not know just how much they like you which is what making yourself unavailable is meant to show them) they will notice the shift and start to seek you out to find out why.

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This is the point the tables turn and now you have them chasing you. Now for the hard part .. The most tried and true method for making someone crazy about you is a game called hot/cold. When she first tries to seek you out don't avoid her, but definitely have a loaded schedule and an excuse or two ready for why you're busy. This is the cold. Now, you have to be completely 'sincere' in this first rejection and let them know that "MAYBE" (!!!) you could hang when your schedule clear up. Now you have fueled that spark you created when they started to wonder why you stopped chasing them into a flame. Continue with your routine, resisting the urge to give in for a few more days. Whichever comes first, they approach you again or you TRULY (don't mess with fate if it was meant to be it will) just bump into them somewhere ..
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Confidently suggest you check out that new bar that just opened, or movie that came out. If you want to play it safe suggest they come out with you AND your friends. This is the hot. Alternate with different scenarios that keep you interesting before they know it they will be hot for you. Your work isn't finished yet though. To wrap this deal up be sure that after each time you spend with them you immediately shut it off and cool it down again. This is the key part of this game that will make anyone CRAZY for you! but BE WARNED .. They must never find out that this was your intention or the secrets you employed to win them over as nothing will make them fall out of love faster. Now remember .. with great power comes great responsibility. Hahaha. Good luck.
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Dont its a waste of your time they are childish and it only lasts a week in reality also there is probably no pda (public display of affection) and really focus on your school work

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preach hun
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You shouldn't be worrying about that already especially since you go to school to learn, and not for relationships. Don't worry... wait because once you have that title of being THAT GIRL you will grow up to be THAT Girl

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Be really outgoing but be shy At times and be flirty but not to the point where ur obnoxious and stealing other girls guys.DONT BE FAKE!! but push em around a little and hav fun

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