i once wanted to get a bf in middle school, but trust me, it's not worth all the crying and heart breaking after it...UGH lol and since that year, i decided to never have a bf till i go to college, and yet it's my last year of HS! xD u DON'T need to have a boyfriend in middle school because: 1. you will mostly get called slut 2. teachers won't like u anymore 3. everyone wants to talk about ur bf 4. even if ur bf changes the way they look at u, u will get ur heart broken so yeah my advice: DON'T CARE about boys
Listen. Your in the age range of 10-14 probably. You don't need a boyfriend right now. Focus on your friends and school work. I'm 14 and in the 10th grade. Even now im too young. Boys our age aren't looking for love or you. They just want sex. My first boyfriend in 9th grade only dated me cause he wanted to have sex with me. When I said no he ended it. You don't need to deal with that. Let your self grow and find out who you really are and what you really want. You may really want one now... but their kind of useless right now. Just try not to grow up too fast. This world and some of the people in it are cruel. Don't expose your heart to someone that will just break it. You don't need a boyfriend.
It's not even worth it to date boys in middle school, or high school. They're so immature. And they only have one thing on their minds. My advice, wait until you're out of college and they've hopefully grown up. School is more important, and the friendships you make!
If you really think you're responsible and mature enough to handle a relationship, you should know how to get a boyfriend lol. Sorry but I see these questions all the time, and it's not rocket science! You can befriend him first, or you could try flirting with him, or just come out and tell him how you feel. Good luck!
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A lot of people say you shouldn't date in middle school, but I really don't see the harm in it. As long as you don't get too serious, I think dating when you're young is totally fine. I got my first boyfriend when I was in seventh grade, and the farthest we ever went was holding hands, LOL. Just remember that it's not really possible to LOVE someone when you're 12 years old. Dating in middle school is more about curiosity and experience than anything else.
First off, if he doesn't have ANY feelings for you now he probably never will (Don't worry there are plenty more fish in the sea). If he does have some sort of feelings for you here's how you make them grow. The first rule is to keep them chasing you. You can easily flip your situation by making yourself a lot less available. Make more plans with friends, try something new, join a club. They will start to wonder what you are doing now that you aren't chasing them and this is your opportunity to turn the tide. Plus, it will take your mind off of them for a bit, make you look more attractive and creates more options (Don't be closed to the possibility of meeting someone else you may like better!). Now, in making yourself unavailable it is CRUCIAL that your true intentions are not revealed. Don't avoid them, don't be catty just forget about them completely and just do what you normally do. If they like you (and they may not know just how much they like you which is what making yourself unavailable is meant to show them) they will notice the shift and start to seek you out to find out why.
You shouldn't be worrying about that already especially since you go to school to learn, and not for relationships. Don't worry... wait because once you have that title of being THAT GIRL you will grow up to be THAT Girl