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Is it wrong if a tall girls goes out with a short guy?

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Females naturally prefer a bigger, taller male because they feel safe and protected, it's a million years of evolution. But if you prefer a short guy then hey that's cool, whatever floats your boat. If somebody doesn't like it that's THEIR problem, not yours.

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Only if the girl is doing it b/c she has a superiority complex and needs a short boyfriend to feel better about herself.

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no

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It's unusual but it's fine.

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It's personal preference, it's not wrong any more than your choice of shirts is "wrong."

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It's wrong if a girl judges a guy by their height.

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There is nothing wrong with going out with a shorter guy. I am the tallest person in my grade, so I don't really have a choice, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Follow your heart!

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no love is in all sizes

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As a guy, I can say that I know a lot cool guys who are shorter than average so if he is a good one then go for it.

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who cares

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Tony is right that there is an evolutionary reason for girls preferring taller men. But a lot has changed in the last 200,000 years or so, and women are now more capable than before of being independent and able to function without having to rely on a big, burly guy saving them from saber tooth tigers. Be that independent woman and make your choices accordingly.

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it's fine, if you're secure enough with yourself, who care how short they are if you like them?

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I don't think it's wrong. If you love him, everything else about him doesn't matter. Like height, or weight, or really anything, true love will override the faults that he has.
I am 5'6", my fiancée though, is barely 4'10"; not going to lie, he's pretty short, but that doesn't matter that much - What matters is I love him. Everything about him. :) So no I don't think it's wrong. : )

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Nope

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Not at all. That's fine. I just wouldn't do it because I would personally feel uncomfortable. :o

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Not unless they are gunna kiss, he could hurt his neck.

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Stand on a box duck.
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I will stand on achair.
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i am like 4ft.10 and my hubby is nealy 6ft
he sometimes makes fun of me by standing on a lower step;
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Lol, apparently he loves you, so I wouldnt worry so much.
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No its fine but it's not as Common as the other way around. I wouldn't do it though it would be very very weird and uncomfortable for me. I had to slow dance with a couple shorter guys and it was just weird. It's funny though. But it's perfectly fine

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It's perfectly fine. It's just not really a common thing is all.

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why should it matter love is love and the height of somebody shouldnt effect that in any way.if that is how life worked then all of the really short people wouldnt have a soul mate. so dont judge your dates by their size or shape judge them by their personality.

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no its not

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I don't know, define short. Do you mean the guy is a few inches below you, or he needs a ladder just to hold your hand? Either way, no big deal.

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its perfectly fine, I know a lot of girls who are dating shorter guys and no one notices anything, and if they do, no one cares.

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There is nothing wrong with that! It doesn't matter if he is short or not.

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No Way!!!!! Love matters about the feeling. not the height

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dont listen to tony373 hes a jerk who justs waqnts sex i say go for it girl you got this

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Dude, my boyfriend is about three inches shorter than me. It's cool. c:

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I used to date a short guy and it was a little awkward at times, but if it makes you happy go for it!

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nothing can be the obstacle of love, don't care about other's feeling, Sometimes, i think shorter girl has different charms.

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No, Just proves you don't care what others think. Be you (:

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no its fine love is beautiful and nothing as stupid as height should get in the way of it . im taller than my boyfriend no one says anything , its fine . and why does it matter what other people think . if they judge there not worth your time . and if its family that judges than just say at least im happy .

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It's not weird at all! ( I'm probably saying this because I'm 4'4" and I'm in middle school

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no its love or likeness that's matter.

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you don't really see it all the time but it perfectly fine. as long as you not like 6'8 & he's 5'4 you know ?

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Love is love. Height doesnt matter <3

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No it's not wrong, in fact, it's the only way I can get a date ;)

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I actually think short boys and tall girls are cute <3 Lol

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Not at all!

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LOve is love, it is totally fine whatever way :)

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The only thing that matters is if they love each other.

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Only if it matters to you! If it doesn't bother you, go for it! And if anyone thinks it's weird, screw them because they will die alone because they won't go for shorter people :)

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No! Guys usually have their growth spurts way after girls! As long as the two of you are happy

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why miss out on a GREAT relationship because of something "pardon the pun" so small an issue.

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Not at all! I'm tall and I've dated guys shorter than me. It's totally fine.

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no this is like saying. fat and thin cant date.. blonde and brown. it doesn't matter outter qualities just for who you are inside :)

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Everyone sees you like something they don't seen. If you like him you can go, no one will question you. EVER....

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i dated a short guy and i said that he looks like an elf but taller.

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No. Its fine if you date a shorter guy.

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