How to deal with siblings growing up and getting their own life?
I'm the oldest of three younger brothers. my whole life I've been protecting them and helping then in every single situation. The oldest one is joining the army pretty soon and the two younger ones are growing up extremely fast. It breaks my heart and i cry because i know that they can't be teenagers forever. I myself have my own life, i have a finance and a son. But how do i deal with them growing up? I don't have a sister and i wish i did so that i could confide in her but oh well. How can i deal with this situation? Just an FYI i have extreme abandonment issues :(