Why do people view modesty as bad, boring, etc.?
I was never actually 'taught' to be modest, but I was raised around women who dressed very elegantly, but simple. Some wore pants, most wore skirts that came down to the calve. I never saw a problem with it. These days, if you don't dress provocatively you get accused of not keeping up with the times and being too uptight. It just seems odd to me. One guy told me that he would never even talk to a girl who didn't show him what she was "working with". That just seems like objectification to me, but what do I know? What bothers people so much about modesty?