Depends on how long you've been dating and if you share children, a home, etc. You know? If long, you may want to sit down and just have "one of those talks." Just don't text it, for the love of God! Ha! On the other hand, even if the relationship was a brief one, you apparently care enough to seek advice. Try and let him know you've thought it through, and explain, this is why...and state ABC, and elaborate on your points. Like a paper, or book report. I would write some things down and go over it a couple times, not rehearse! Don't sit and read, or memorize what you wrote and speak verbatim. Hope this helps!!!
breakups are not easy, if your bf has become attached to you and loves you to the fullest, he will be hurt.. but if he understands and respects What you have to tell him and he is willing to go through, he Will be fine, he will miss you, and love you.