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Why do I care too much about what people think of me?

in school if I do something or say something stupid I regret saying it and i always say in my head 'people forget easily' mutiple times so i can feel not that upset, i feel so frustrated and confused and for a couple seconds I get mad at my life and I just can't handle this stress.

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Me too! =) Hey, you Just need to relax! Put all your stress into your work, take it out on P.E., your music (If you have a music elective/play an instrument). It works for me sometimes, but if it doesn't all come out on those things, then you relive the moments over and over again until you have something worse happen to you that it replaces it with. Good luck! =)

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dw :) i get that too, i think its normal though, at least i think, im just hopping i grow out of it :)

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That's normal. I do it too. And guess what? Here's proof. I said something that I regretted and I got embarrassed on HERE ASK.COM and just because of that, I deleted my profile and made a NEW one. That's why I'm called "NEW" Jorgensen ^_^ LOL.

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Probably a bit of insecurity. Work on daily affirmations. When you look in the mirror, tell yourself good morning, I feel and look great, and I'm going to do my best today to accept myself as I am today. God doesn't make junk! You are gold.

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Most of us get that natural feeling... What may help is knowing that for every feeling you get like that, there are many more people elsewhere feeling the same way...

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Everyone has said or done something they regret. Apologize to all parties/ forgive yourself and move forward. The situation only becomes an issue, if one's behavior becomes a Life choice. Safe Journey

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No one is perfect, only God and Jesus. You are just a sentitive person.Don't let little things bring you down. If you make a mistake like all of us have done at one point or another just laugh it off and learn from your mistakes and don't make them again. Life is for learning. P.S. exercise it will take stress away.

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