Should I leave my boyfriend who is not motivated to do anything in life?
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years but im so sick of the relationship now. He's not motivated to do anything in life. I try very hard to convince him to finish high school and go to college but he says college is not for him. I told him that's fine but atleast finish your high school diploma or GED.....that was 2 years ago -.- I'm in college and will be opening my own business soon. I feel like im the one doing everything for us.....like i have the pants in the relatjons. It's such a turnoff. If i need to fix something, like a fan, or a cabinet, he cant do it. Normally its the guys fixing things like that but nope he cant do anything. If i need him to help me carry something big or heavy, he complains. Anything wrong with my car, i myself have to fix or take to the auto shop. He doesnt have his liscence so i have to drive him everywhere. I have tried teaching him to drive.....but he doesnt care. Yes, i have talked to him about it so many times but all he says is he'll do it later. His parents never motivated him to do anything. So I'm trying but he's not cooperating. I'm starting to feel very annoyed with anything he says and I'm becoming extremely bored with him. I try to go out with him and do activities but nothing. We have a 3 yr old son. He's a good dad but i don't know what to do anymore. All he cares about is going to concerts and music. He has a job atleast. I feel like he doesn't care about his future or mine and our sons. If he did he would be motivated to better his own future. And yes i help him do many things and I'm patient but at some point it gets very old. He says im always nagging about his future but i feel like i have a point. We live in a tiny room with his parents and I'm the one making plans to get us an apartment in February.