Make sure you are communicating with your partner. Sit him down and ask what is wrong and what he would like to be changed. Show him in little ways that you only want him and not another guy. Possibly give him a reason why you don't like the other guy you talk to. Invite him to hang out with the people he thinks will take you away from him. It will take time and trust.
That's two bad traits that is hard to break. In most cases the jealous controlling types will become abusive in some way. It may not be physical abuse but emotional. People that are controlling will start to alienate you from friends and family. Just keep your guard up if you plan to keep seeing them.
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Last edited at 8:19PM on 9/15/2013
if he cant change, change out the boyfriend your with for someone new or else its your life that is at stake. You should only try and work with someone for so long, if they cant change for some reason...get rid of him
Well I would sit down with them and tell him or her that if you trust me then you will not always wonder where I am and if I'm cheating or what I'm doing. I have a life to and I'm glad that your unit but I would like you to stop being do controlling. I love you and I don't like antithetical guys/girls. Your mine and I'm yours no one else's. please trust me to hold up our commitment that we made when you or I asked you out!! Tell them the truth and give them a reason to trust you
If you're not doing anything to give him a reason, such as being secretive, dishonest, or flirty, then sadly, there really isn't anything you can do. If you are truly innocent, then it's on him to choose to be trustful and to have the confidence in himself and you. As for the controlling bit? YOU cannot change that, and unless he wants to treat you like a woman deserves, he won't change himself. Tell him to kick rocks before jealous and controlling becomes black and blue for you. Been there, had that, and it's not at all worth the emotional and physical pain. Give yourself a self respect booster and run!