3 months ago
Last edited at 8:16PM on 9/16/2013
Well looks are what draw people in personality is what keeps them around. In the long run personality and having common interests would be better . Just focus on building yourself as a person mentally , morally , emotionally , and physically . Girls will come and go , but you can only find the right one if you are yourself . Word of advice let the girl talk she will tell you everything you need to know and if she's not for you move on .
It is pretty important , like even if a girl doesn't admit it she's not gonna date someone who in her opinion is ugly. Don't give up though if she thinks your even a little cute you can completely win her over with personality !!! In my opinion atleast
Depends on the girl. The more adult she is (not how old, but how adult) the more she appreciates other qualities in a man, just as a man learns to appreciate other qualities in a woman. Note: That never means that she doesn't look at a hunk of a man.. it just means that she learns to appreciate the entire package.
Looks are what initially attracts a person to another. It's important to me for them to look like they care about their appearance and that they are clean. If they catch my eye initially looks-wise, that's all that matters as far as looks. I don't care about if they were certain brands of clothes or anything like that. If they're charming and respectful or can make me laugh then we're set. Looks can matter more or less to a girl though, it really depends on the girl.
Well, if a guy comes up to me with respect, humor, and pure kindness, I will definitely develop a crush. He could look like Mick Jagger or Marilyn Manson for all I care. As long as he treats me and others how they should be treated and loves me for who I am, even the nutty things that I say or do, then I'll love him just as much.
3 months ago
Last edited at 8:17PM on 9/16/2013
A lot. A lot. A lot. A lot. A lot. A lot. A lot.... To me. xD
Take something, one of the most valuable things you can think of, multiply that by 10 and imagine it being taken away from you constantly. It's a bad feeling, right? ... Meaning girls try to constantly, constantly make sure they look good or right for a situation. The worst feeling is trying to look good for 1 person that's important to you. /: Now, take all of that and multiply that by 10 again, if you have self esteem issues. xD It's horribly important.
Looks are the first thing we notice about someone. If you are really attracted to someone by their looks, that could be the cause of you two even talking in the first place! In that aspect, looks are important. I mean, you can't just look at someone and say, "Wow, they look like someone who loves volunteer work! Let me just go talk to that person." But, once a relationship starts going, if the person has no content to their character, the relationship wont last long. If you plan on spending a fair amount of time with that person, let alone the rest of your life, your gonna have to be able to see more in them than what meets the eye.
Looks is what all girls really care about. Girls think that if a guy a guy and a girl both like art and the guy is cute means that the guy is "perfect for her". The guy could be a real jerk and might of punched her BFF but she can't get mad at him because he is "perfect". I don't get people these days... I'm not like that. No one should be like that. The world will never know that the most beautiful girl on the outside can be the most ugly girl on the outside, but, the most beautiful girl on the OUTSIDE may not be as pretty on the inside. I feel bad for the beautiful people out there being called ugly because of looks. And the " Most beautiful girl ever" can be a real pain to date because they care about looks. I wish the world could change :(
I'll admit that I prefer a man to be taller than me. Personality is very important. I'm not attracted to conceited men at all. I like rugged better than preppy. Still, personality, sense of humor, and basic goodness count most for me.