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Should I turn him down?

I fell in love with a guy while he was in a relationship. Worst mistake. However, that relationship has now ended, he wants to date me now, but I don't want to get hurt again. I still love him, but the pain is still there. What should I do?

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If you confronted him while he was in a relationship and he turned you down, then it's your own fault... Relationships can be scary, but it's important to expose yourself to the possibility of being hurt, in order to grow and to learn. If you stay in your comfortable bubble, how will anyone get to know the real you? He sounds like a great guy, I say go for it.

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go for it girl

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i would say yes and see how it works out you wont know till you try :)

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Say yes!

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if u love him date him dnt let him go for sm thing this silly coz if u let go of love all u will be left with is pain

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If he was cheating with you when he was in a relationship, he will cheat on your in your relationship. I would not trust him, or perhaps you?

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Don't. If he was willing to have a relationship with you and the other girl, I would say no. Hope this helps!

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.... sounds like a junior-high romance.
Yeah. He's "single" now.
Duh.

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