Friendship or a girlfriend?
So i have been trying to muster up the guts to ask a girl out for about six months now and then i finally get the courage to do it. Then, at lunch today i learned that my friend likes the same girl and recently our mutual friends have been trying to set them up. No one knows that i like her and i really dont know what to do because i'm worried that if i ask her out and she says yes my friend will hate me, but, i dont know how he will react. if i ask her out and she says no to me but yes to him then i will feel horrible and vice versa. But if i do nothing the friendship stays intact but i have to watch them together an di dont know if i could stand it. I know its pitiful that i am going to the internet for help but i just have no idea and you guys have given me good advice in the past so please help. :(