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I'm a band nerd and I'm dating the quarterback of my school's football team. but i'm in love with someone else. I could use some advice

I've recently found myself in a relationship with my school's top jock. The problem is, I'm a band nerd. I don't usually socialize with people outside of the band and since he doesn't play an instrument, it's hard to find topics to talk about. I do like him a lot, but at the same time I'm in love with a guy who graduated a few years ago who is our student teacher band director. The thing is that the student teacher is constantly joking with me about my boyfriend and me about his girlfriend...He is saying that my relationship is changing me but I'm not sure how to take that. Any advice for my situation?

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I would say... Follow your heart, even if it takes you to the teacher. (And as long as you are 18).

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Love is a choice.
You chose to go out with the QB;
You're infatuated with the asst. band director.

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Do NOT get involved with a teacher, assistant teacher, or student teacher while you are still a student. If they are a decent person, you could get them in serious trouble. And if they are NOT a decent person, you could end up in worse trouble. If you truly care for this adult, keep it to yourself and help him to stay out of trouble. In some instances, he could be in trouble if you even talked about it and it became school gossip.

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In your case, you are infatuated with your student teacher band director and thus you need to get a reality check on the nature of your feelings. Make up your mind who you want to be with. Note that being in a relationship with a student teacher band director is wrong and it can cause you a lot of problems since you are a minor.

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