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2 questions - why are some men comfortable with the woman paying for everything? Why are some men so dependent on women?

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Waaaaa ? It's usually the guy that pays for stuff or should... At least on dates and what not . Maybe he sees you as a sugar mama .

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Why are some women comfortable with the man paying for everything? Why are some women so dependent on men?

I'll tell you my experience. He's still in school, I make a decent paycheck, and that's all there is to it. It's not dependency, it's a sensible financial agreement for a long term relationship.

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You situation is different & understandable
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We'll see...man doesn't like to be beholden to a woman.
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@foolmeonce - there didn't seem to be a specific situation in the question, if you have something in particular in mind could you explain?

@Granola - What does "we'll see" mean? Women don't like to be beholden to men, either. In fact while it's nice for a man to pay for a date, if you don't eventually take turns paying, or start splitting the check, it gets to be quite awkward. Just because a woman pays doesn't make him a "kept man."
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usually the guy pays, i dont know what you talkin bout

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She said some. If you don't know what she means, why answer?
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Because about 90% of guys pay for meals when they go out, that is not some
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Those are guys who just weren't raised right, usually with no dad in home, and don't know how to be a respectable man. Women like men like this because it's easy to get them, keep them, just pay for everything.

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Oh and men who pay for everything for a woman have the most innocent agendas, right? LOL
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Only men who weren't taught right by their parents, or the guy is just a lazy mooch go along with the woman paying for everything. If you're dealing with a guy like this...DUMP him! He's taking advantage of you.

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Men like that are only using you.

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That's not a recipe for a very good relationship. You will have a lot more resources without those kind of guys.

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Some guys are losers and they don't have the money to pay because they either don't have a job and don't want to work. Or they have a job and are cheap. Some guys just don't care.

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Well, I always paid, but if a woman wanted to buy me dinner, I wouldn't mind at all. I might even let her have her way with me. I feel warm and fuzzy, just thinking about it.

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Same reason some women are, their not great people, not that they are necessarily bad, just not great.

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