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How do i tell my mom that my bf and i broke up?

well she really liked him and we dated for a bout a year and we just broke up i dk waht to tell her

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Just bring it up casually.
"Hey Mom, (insert name here) probably won't be coming over here so much."
"Why not?"
"Oh, we broke up. It's not a big deal really."
It's that simple! ;) tell me how it goes!

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kk i will brb wish me luck
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qtothmex is right .best of luck.
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well i talk to her and she freaked out and then she saidy didnt u tell me sooner or right after it happened then she walked out of the room i haven't talk to since then idk what to do HELP
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Tell her that it really wasn't that big a deal and it just slipped your mind.
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Also it's your desicion and she can't exactly choose your boyfriend for you...
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If you read this tell me how it goes. I'm sorry my advice kinda screwed things up between you and your mom.
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hey its not ur falut its hers she is the one freakin out so no worries and she cant choose my bf btw im kinda glad i took ur advice cuz now i can stand up to her something i have never been able to do
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So was there a happy ending or did my advice screw everything up?
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Just tell her what happened and maybe she will understand.......remember, its your life.....

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ur right its my life not hers
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yea lol :)
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Just tell her! I don't understand this question. My mom is the first person I've always gone to with my relationship problems. ^_^ Talk to her, I'm sure she has some great advice and will know how to comfort you and cheer you up.

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You: Hey mom me and my boyfriend broke up.
Mom: Cool.
Simple as pie!!!

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My sister-in-law always got attached to my niece's and nephews' boyfriends and girlfriends which always made it awkward for her kids when they broke up.

"Mom, ___and I broke up." Then tell her as much of what went on that you feel comfortable telling.

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Um why would you care what she thinks? She can't force you to stay with him

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true but he comes over like every day so she might notice wait ur right she cant force me y am i so scared
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Idk lol but just do it
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thanks lke707 :)
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just tell her. i was kind of confused and when my gf broke up with me, and it was too embarrassing to just tell my mom, but i shouldve, because she found out and freaked out because i hadnt told her.

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what if she freaks out when i tell her
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just say its fine, no big deal
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if u knew her like i do well be lucky u dont cuz she'll have a tottal breack down she'll make a big.... huge deal out of nothin that y i dont really wanna tell her and then she encourage to have me date other guys and i tell her i just got out of a relashoneship and she'll say so and make me date some one and she will not stop till i have a bf
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thats about how my mom is actually, minus the going crazy til i get a new gf part...
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really its just i wish she would butt out of my private life it is so annoying
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so do i.
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i dont know how to tell her to pleaseleave my private life alone any ideas
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just say it. i think she'll understand. if not, scream it in her face ;)
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lol :) i'll try but she woun't leave me alone do u think i should tell her that i got another bf or not?????
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dont lie unless you absolutely have to, last resort style.
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kk brb in like 5 min. gonna go tell my mom then i tell u what happened kk
wish me luck !*_*
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good luck!
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well she was sorta shocked that i said to stay out of my personal life andto be hounest i was to i never really stood up to herlike i did today she i dont care u cant tell stay out of ur life im ur mom" then i said "u raised me to make my own choose not u or any body eles can decide for me there my choose iand i need to decide them" then she looked really mad at first but she said ok fine i stay out if ur life" but idk what she means by she'll stay out of my life do u
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umm, hopefully she just meant personal life, not your whole life.
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look for a mum to like her daughter's bf is like a gift for God but she will understand. you just need to tell her like that "Hey mum... i broke up with ______"
the only thing you need to expect is the questions how or why. but its ok. when she will be sure that you're fine and not heartbroken she will forget the subject.
tell how it goes!

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You don't always tell your parents stuff

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I mean, I'm being really hypocritical here because I don't tell my mum a lot of stuff (not really big stuff though) but.....

You should be comfortable talking to your mum, if your mum is anything like mine, you'll get all nervous about telling her something and then when you tell her she is fine with it. But, just be brave and tell your mum you want to talk with her in private, the conversation should go something like this

"Mum, I feel like I need to tell you something"

"You can tell me anything"

"Well, me and ___ broke up"

And then tell her how and why you broke up!

Make sure you DO NOT look sad or like you miss him, she should be happy if you're happy!

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