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What should I do for My Sweetheart ?

I am in love with her. I proposed her, she accepted, and we are in a relationship. I think its all going too fast ? She says She love me like hell. (*I love her more than anything). I want to continue this relationship, so Girls what do you expect your boy friend to do ? Advice please ? :*

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In my opinion, you should take her out probably for a dinner or even hiking. You can also buy her gifts, take her to interesting places where she can enjoy herself or even to the movies. Before doing this, it's good to talk with the girl and find her interests so as to know what she likes most.

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Hm...Well, what have you been doing for her up until now? Clearly, it's working. If you think it's going too fast, maybe you could just let her know, but also tell her that you meant the proposal (if you do, of course).

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How much faster can it go? You proposed to her, if you think its going to fast set a date to get married for 6 month to a year.

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:) thanx
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Isn't that a candy?

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I didn't click what u said
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Sweet hearts are a candy, yes?
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dude, Sweetheart means a word used to describe how much u love ur partner. Juz like babe, honey... Juz calling em sweet words...
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Duh. But isn't there a candy by that name aswell. Btw babe is also name "sweet word" but I don't really care. Babe will always be a sheepdog pig to me.
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That'll do pig, that'll do.
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HAha ok pig !!
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If you want an answer. Then I suggest you become 100% open with her to the point that she always gets the truth. And tell her to always come up with new questions so you can know every little detail about eachother. That's what me and my friend started doing because I sensed his emo behavior was unhealthy and I really care about him. I started it off by asking him if there was anything he'd normally keep to himself and he said maybe but I don't know what you're looking for so I said I'm open with anyone because otherwise I feel like a lier and I won't have that so I told him flat out that I struggle with homosexuality in 2 ways. One is internally and the other is I tend to get a little steamed when people defend it while not knowing what they're supporting. After 2 days I got him to admit to being slightly gay. Man he has it easy in my book but I'm glad that he could be open about it. Cause what good am I as his mentor, friend and brother in Christ if I am not a part of his life.
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:) yeah i guess that will do... :)
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Btw I'm not like those west burrow baptist freaks. I get overly annoyed when people are defending it because they only think of accepting people instead of realizing that some stuff is bad for you. It destroyed my life and God had to clean up the pieces... I don't like giving him more work. I try really hard to fix my own mistakes and others' aswell but he ends up with it anyway... But still. Sorry if you're not Christian for pushing my views on you but I wanted to make it clear I'm no picketer from hell...
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And i am not in any religion. I am an atheist. We believe that there is no god and things and I get your point. :D But I value everyone's views... :)
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I have one question. About your religion. How does you religion view the earth coming to be? Cause an atheist is someone who doesn't belong to religions that have deities or no deities. With is stuff like Christianity and Buddhism. Without is stuff like Evolution, Agnostic and Taoism. If you don't believe the earth had a maker or mystic nature or hidden creation, what made it?
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Oil massage

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Hi Johnny .I read your profile. My husband and I were the same ages when we dated. We were both Seniors in high school.
I was glad I listened to my mom, in the respect that she did allow us to date, but we could never be in the house alone. Good gals and guys waited till marriage and the temptation of being alone was great,
I expected my guy to not pressure me, and he never did! He respected my mom also.
We dated 6 years, and parted once.

It is good to date at least one other when you start young, because once you get married, you want it to be happy and forever. There will always be a few bumps, but with the right soul mate, you can get through anything.
My boyfriend and I also had God in our lives..we still do. When we dated, I was the one with all the issues and he was the one who solved them . We came from good families, but my mom too had issues with us dating. She was seldom wrong, [ and this was one of the times she was ] but we both respected her. . So it was hard to make things work as we dated.
Have to go into comments now..

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Thank you soo much and yeah the temptation for being alone is btwn us now. But it won't happen :) And she loves me so much. Nobody have loved me like she did. The greatest sadness is... She is gonna take me to another city now !! :'( I will not be able to live without her. She always bcms sad when we talk abt that ! :'(
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When you are young, you don't think about troubles, but they happen and unless you have a strong bond and understanding, you won't have a marriage that works and children deserve a family of love. We have been married over 25 happy years.We learned that sharing and having patience can take a relationship a long way. It is so important too, that you both respect each other's family because when you marry, you marry into 2 families. Peace is important So take this relationship slowly, iron out the issues by communicating in a civilized manner and be patient. Plenty of time so don't rush into being that serious. Remember..you have to be best friends first and from that comes true soul mates God bless.
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Thank you... And yeah I respect her family and she does mine... But the only problem is that mom knows about her and just judge her on what she wears and all... I told my mom that i know her well than she does, but she doesn't understand ? :(
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Have God in your lives and if it is meant to be, it will. You see..I did not want to get married, so we prayed together that we would make good choices and I guess we got the answer.
I would marry him all over again.,He is you see, my best friend too..
Not many can say that..We have been blessed. Don't be sad. Just think of how you can make a good future for each other if marriage is for you when you both are older...But be patient and have dreams.
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I hear you. My guy was nice too, but sometimes parents can be wrong.They are trying to guide tho. Give it time.
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Yeah that's a point... And frankly we both considered each other to be best friends forever. And thats when she started to talk openly with me and then i felt her soo perfect that i fell in love with her.. :)
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Yeah :I
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All the best. Make good choices and you will both be glad you did. Nothing good comes easy:) One day at a time and trust in God ..If God is in your life. We all have our beliefs:)
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Yeah.. Thanks... :)
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Most welcome:)
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Flash mob in front of the whole school.that would be awesome!! ^.^

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Back off

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