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I was in a group in college but its that I don't like one girl in that group and all the other people never say anything to her and everyone just runs away from work in that group.. And that girl whom I don't like.. its not just that I don't like her without any reason.. she is just always making fun of me and picking on me and trying to command everything though she doesn't do anything herself...
I was thinking of changing the group but it just comes to my mind that what if the group I go in will be good for me or not whether I'll be happy there or what will the present group say to me if I'll leave them, what will they think of me.. and stuff like that.... what should I do
Also I don't feel relaxed whatever decision I take

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Welcome to adulthood. "Groups" are a transient thing. Think back to your childhood BFF's. Not too long ago, you thought they were the absolute, bestest onlyiest friends you would ever have. Then, you (and they) grew up. You move on.

Now as you get older, you find in work, recreation, play, hobby, (virtually everywhere) there are people who 'don't contribute', people who use, people who rise to the occasion, and people who are there all the time.

Regarding school, you have to get the project done. "Get r' Done" Don't sweat it. Just get the project done. Next time, don't get involved, with the 'non contributors'. You see them. Stay away from them. Sometimes in group projects you 'have' to deal with them. It happens at work too. The only satisfaction I can share is: They usually always get 'found out' and the problem solves itself. :-)

Good Luck.

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You'll find out as you get older, 'groups' don't matter one bit. Finding certain friends who have qualities that you appreciate, friends who enjoy your company and like you for who you are and nothing more- that's what real life usually turns out to be. I personally don't have that many friends, but the ones I do have are the best kind for me, and they don't know each other so there's not a whole lot of 'group' activities. If you find people who have similar views in life and respect you for who u are, I think you'll be happy, regardless of it being a group or just a few individuals

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You shouldnt worry about what other people think about yo. You should do what feels rite in your heart. The only person in this whole world you can make happy is yourself. Good Luck.

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I say go with your heart let God lead you the way he wants to lead you. An not matter where you go if you allow God to take control it will always be good. Try to talk to her an see why she is doing what she is doing. If you can't then just give them some space to think things out.

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Well first of all you are your own person, second off if you wanna change groups go ahead don't be afraid of how they look at you. People are in harassment every single day and no one wants too do anything about it at all. If you don't feel comfortable you change to a different group. If not that, then speak up for yourself. They are all probably nobody's who do not have a life and wants too ruin everyone elses. Go ahead do what makes you comfortable. ( In the nicest way possible)

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Thanks prettyface that was nice
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Your welcome Anytime @mona08 Make the best decision for you!
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