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What do you think about a man who doesn't acknowledge he's married and constantly converse with females ? More below

ok i been married for 2 years to a man whose still about that single life selfish anger issues we have 3 kids together he pays all of my bills i know your not suppose to but i went snooping around his email .. (i know i know) and found a whole bunch of pictures from females naked and all then to top it all off hes been secretly sending money to this female idk what i am suppose to do ...i talked to hm about the pics he said those were from when we argued and stopped talking ? huh ?! clearly dont know the meaning of loyalty and waiting the situation out.. and when i asked about the money his response was it doesnt matter why i sent it to her, i got it back and yourbills got paid didnt they ? thats besides the point wow literally in tears as i type idk the thing that gets me is i knew this man for10 yrs ... thank you for any advice

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if i was worried, i would check his emails too; don't feel bad about that. well my opinion is this: he doesn't commit to your marriage at all and he isn't faithful or sincere. you are wasting your time and energy on this person.

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I was worried because everywhere he went he took that phone eat sleep poop with it smh it hurts all of what I found out didn't eat yesterday Idk what to do now
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it's never easy and I will help if I can; prayers or a person to listen. I have been where you are and it stinks! just let me know if I can help in any way. take care
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What you need to do is to sit down with the man and talk about this. Tell him you know of his philandering ways and want him to stop because he is hurting the entire family. Talk to him about your kids and what would happen if you were to divorce or they found out.

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I sat down with him it led to nowhere smh he packed his things and left ... he said he used some of the money to pay her cellphone bill ?! What really ??? Smh
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I'm sorry but I would hurt my husband if he did that. That is wrong on so many levels he either needs to change or he doesn't deserve you.

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He not gonna change I've tried so many times to sit and have talks its not working he feels like he's never wrong in any situation
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That doesn't sound like a man at all.

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I know it hurts like hell
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You have children with this "man". For your sake and theirs, find the strength to leave him, any way that you can.
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Its hard ... he moved out yesterday
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That's a *good* thing. He doesn't deserve you. Never let someone so fake decide how you feel. Everyone, no matter how long it takes, shows their true colors in the end.
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That is so true ... thank you for that
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You're welcome. I know it's difficult to see right now while you're going through this, but, it is an opportunity. A start, not a finish. Take care.
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Ok :)
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Pretty00
Ain't that the truth.
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Yes, it's the only truth.
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Pretty00
Uh huh.
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I'm sorry, do you disagree KALI_GIRL? Sensing some degree of tension from you. This woman should stay with her husband?
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Well now, aren't you an odd bird? Thanks for commenting.
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Nope. No further comment.
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Hahaha okay that was weird.
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He has betrayed your trust in just 2 years. You can't live like that. Also a leopard can't change his spots. But its your choice if you stay together.

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Its way more me and this man have been through a lot deb smh
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Did this idiot actually propose to you & take vows?
I'd like to kick his butt as well; he makes the rest of us guys look bad!
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My advice: file for divorce. Get a lawyer for more advice.

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He did Lol and he makes good females like me not be able to trust you know I went harder for "US" then he ever did .. it sucks
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I'd get a lawyer as soon as possible. What a piece of $h!t. You're worth much better than that. Straighten your back, and sic em!

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Wow, looks like you are in "attack mode" today ! By the way, I completely agree with you :) !
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Down girl! Heel! Heel!
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He deserves a big bite in the a$$!!!
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Yup Monday !!! Is the big day for the "divorce" !! Its way more stuff that he's done throughout our marriage than just this I thought he would change I guess I thought wrong and he's actually gotten worse with the flirting and such smh but I have the emails from the females also the receipts from when he sent alllll that money !! Proof
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Good for you! Go get that scum!!!
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