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How do I become less shy? I really need help.

I started a new school a month ago and I'm So shy. like seriously. I don't really have any real friends. but this girl is gonna try and help me be less shy but I need some tips. help?

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Believe in yourself! Constantly point out daily the things you like about you. When you do that it will show in everything you do and say and believe me, others will see that. Positive attracts positive..

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try to be friendly and make conversations about any stupid thing but just be you if you do not like something u dont like it and that's all no body can do anything to change it, REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO DO SOMETHING YOU DO NOT WANT TO DO .. GOOD LUCK

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What helped me overcome being shy was realizing that everyone messes up and that's how we learn. I started college this year all by myself and it took me a while to understand this. I had awkward conversations and pauses and all that jazz, but I got better with practice. Also, even of you say awkward things, if you say them with a smile on your face and with some laughter, people usually just think you're being silly. If you're nervous, try deep breathing or praying (if you're religious) before talking to people. Don't think about what can go wrong with a conversation either, just imagine having a nice conversation and then believe you'll have one. I'm sure you'll do just fine, so good luck & God bless <3

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