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how to stop thinking of your ex....

I left her but can't stop thinking of her ...When im ar work I think of her when im at home to.. don't know what to do crap ...

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think of all the reasons you broke up, relive them, learn to dislike her. If thats not what you want, then occupy yourself and try to forget it about it. not sure but from what ive read it takes about, maybe a month or two to completely get over someone....i think

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hopefully cuz I left her like a week ago and having trouble thinking of her but yea thanks and I do think of all the reasons and it helps a lil but thanks for the tip. ..
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yep, listen to mwanted.she is totally correct.

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Thanks arfa ...
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welcome :)
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well, when go to thinking about her, think about something else. with the help of ol' man time, you will forget about her. all you can do.

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yea your right .. only in time. .thanks keith..
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welcome
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Fácil, tenta manter a cabeça ocupada com outras coisas, i sempre que alto te fizer lembrar dela ou dele, simplesmente muda o que estavas a fazer. para que não estejas sempre a pensar ...

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You will get your answer flagged/removed for not using English. ;(
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wow im Mexican but my Spanish is very low but thanks. ..a lot for this and you must know English if you put a answer on my ? ....
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It's normal to second guess yourself over emotional decisions. You broke it off for reasons and if they are good ones you need to keep busy, and think of the new girl waiting in your future that will make you happy, vice versa.

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yea your right thanks a lot ..
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Good luck S!
It's hard but keep focused, you can do it.
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Easy. Ride a Harley and listen to the engine and feel the freedom.

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I do have a Ford f150 but not a harley ....thanks samcro
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I know it will be hard but get back into the dating scene then you will be thinking of the new person.

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easy to say but hard to do my friend ...I just can't but thanks for the tip Andrew ...
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I know I just had to put it out there. Good luck
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go and talk to her :-)

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I dont want to cuz what she did to me ....thanks :)
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Try to think of something else, hang out with friends etc. If you still can't stop thinking about maybe you weren't meant to break up. Good luck

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Thanks. ..
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;( breakups are never easy, if it makes you feel any better even when you date someone for a month and didn't even like them !!you think about them lol .. 1 no slow songs or songs that remind you of her. 2 no checking Facebook Instagram or any other type of media . 3 start hanging out with your friends 4 never forget why you broke up :) 5 you know that thing you always wanted to do but never made time to do ? DO IT

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I don't have friends here I just moved and I think it would help if I have friends here ....thanks a lot jessie ..
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Where did you move too? Are You working or went to school?? Just find anyone that seems cool are you .. Saying you're new into town is a great pickup line :) Chin up killer
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haha yea moved to Bakersfield CA and im from AZ ....but yea
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You have to ask yourself these questions... 1. Why did you break up with her? (Get a reminder? Good.) Now that you've answered number one and have a good idea and reasoning as to why you broke up with her... 2. Do you still wish to be with her, even after the break up, knowing why you broke up with her? (Figure out your answer.) The rest is pretty obvious. If your answer was yes, go try to get her back. If your answer was no, constantly remind yourself why you broke up with her.

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yea I try to remember but love is the one that makes you wanna be with the person who hurts you I don't want ti be with her but I fill for her that's what socks. ...but thanks a lot ....
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why did you break up with her?

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chitin and a liar..
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stop thinking about her.. you can do better.... you dont; deserve that.. there is a good woman out there for you.. that will treat you they way you deserve to be treated....
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how long have you guys dated?

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like 4 years ...
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If you still have things that are from her throw them away, delete her phone number so you do not see her name in your phone..

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yea that's good idea but she doesn't stop calling ...and it hurt full why cuz I still fill for her but don't wanna be with her ...
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get your number changed i guess maybe? & ignore her calls... because more you talk to her you will fall more in love again n again
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sometime I dont pick up but Im change my # so she won't make me fill bad for living her well thanks for the tip and hop I fill better in time....have a good day ...
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