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I asked a girl out in the most casual way possible. She said no, which is fine, but she said ''I would but I just started going out with someone last night.'' Like I said i'm fine with her rejecting me. However I think she was lying when she said that she just started going out with someone last night. I would have preferred her to be honest. Do you think she was lying?

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Girls lie to protect someone's feelings, so chances are she was lying unless you see her hanging around someone a lot more in the next couple of days.

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It's possible that it was made up to spare your feelings. But, you shouldn't jump to conclusions and assume that. Maybe it was just bad timing. I would try talking to some classmates or her friends to actually find out the truth. And if she was lying, then at least you know not to ask her out again ! :)

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It always feels crummy when lying is involved. In my opinion, it's hard to start "going out" with someone after 1 date. That is what it is. 1 date. Going out, to me, is lot of dates consecutively over a 3 month period. Dating is 3+ dates. She didn't even lie very well. She better check with her 1 date guy before she starts spreading rumors. She may not get a 2nd date from him.
Now, on the flip side of this, she may have been trying to spare your feelings. Depending on her maturity level and awareness of others, perhaps she knew you wouldn't have a chance. Highly unlikely, however, because you seem like a rational, honest, guy. I would say this a nice tap on the shoulder for you. Who wants to be with someone whom can't be honest to herself or to you right out the gate? There are many out there who would love to go out with a guy who is sincere. Good Luck and leave her in the dust. :)

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Who knows...she probably was..just confront her,she's probably ssyin the truth °~°

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