She has a right to be angry. I would be too! He is too old for you! You had to know you would hear this from someone. At 16 & 21, you should be leading different lives. You going to dances and having fun at school. He should be in college or working and living an adult life. And, there can be legal trouble for him in the near future!
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Just because he's older than you doesn't mean he'll end up in jail, stereotypers. Just roll with it! Explain to her how much you like said guy, and if she doesn't calm down or anything, just continue. Also, showing him to your mom and showing how nice he is would help a lot. Good luck! :)
I say go for it, I normally wouldn't, but it seems like you've made up your mind and you just need support. As long as you aren't sexually active he can't go to jail, prison. Just date him and make him wait until you are 18. If you believe your relationship will last that long. If you do not believe it will just end it now.
Your mom should be mad!! Hopefully shell have this perv arrested. What he is doing is illegal and sick. You are a child and he is an adult. He needs to be in jail before he starts looking for even younger girls and you need to be grounded until you grow up A LOT more.
I'm not saying that it's necessarily right to have a 16 year old dating a 21 year old, but love comes in all shapes and sizes. Everyone here is like, "dump him!" Or "that's illegal!" It's only illegal if they're sexually active. How would you like it if you were dating someone above your age when you were sixteen and you really loved them as you had people telling you to dump him because you're immature? Exactly. So, as long as you're being legal about your relationship and you really love each other then keep going. There's no harm in loving someone.
I would lock you up til you are 30 lol . Of course she's mad, a 21 year old has no business with a 16 year old you aren't fully developed until you are 21 he is an adult he should now know that you need to be an adult before you get into a relationship with one. Once you are 21 and fully grown if you date a guy with the same age difference like 25 or 26 it's not so bad cuz you are more on the same level of maturity.
uhm i have a friend who is 16 and she is dating a 23 year old. it is illegal,yes but I too have friends who are over 23 and they understand me very well.If you guys love each other very much then I think he can wait right? until it is legal. And if yore 19 you're grown up and she might say something against it but when you're 19 it's your decision and your life.