How do I politely tell my cousin to leave me alone about my weight?
I'm 5'4 and I weigh between 115 - 120lbs. She's always talking about how 'anorexic' I look and how my boyfriend must be gay because I have the body of a little boy. She calls me flat @$$ and is constantly telling me about her DDD's and then asking me what bra size I am even though she already knows. She's way overweight. She's the same height as me, but she weighs about 210lbs (that's NOT an exaggeration). If I say anything about her weight, everyone jumps up to defend her. Then she's constantly going on about how if she wanted to lose weight, she could do it without even trying because she knows exactly what to eat and blah blah blah. I have celiac's disease and I have to eat gluten free; she calls it an eating disorder. She actually told a friend of hers that....I'm serious. I just want her to shut up and leave me alone. How do I tell her to mind her own business without having everyone turning against me like they always do?