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I'm kind of new here and i need advice this guy likes me but hes 21 and im 15 what should i do?

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Stay away. You are way too young for a 21 year old. A 21 year old shouldn't even be looking at a 15 year old.

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Okay Thanks !
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And we mean it too! Stay away from him!!!
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Try to have a friend that is same age as you. LOL

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Um, no. Just no.

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Run!!!!?!!!!

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You should get away from him and stick with people your own age. He's an adult, you're still a teen. Besides, it's against the law ! If he's 21 and likes you, then he's got head problems. Run young lady! Be safe !

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There are laws dealing with this kind of thing. Best to stay away and find someone your own age.

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I've got to agree with ancient_hippy, even though 6 years isn't a big age difference between a married couple. Its the fact that your 15, your still developing into a young woman and discovering all life has to offer. I'm not saying your to immature to handle the relationship, I'm saying that you still have so much to learn and experience for yourself and you should question the motives of a 21 year old that would date a 15 year old. He can go to clubs and bars, you can't. I'm sure you still have curfew. So, do yourself a favor and stay away from this guy.

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RavensFan15 I Dont Have An Curfew
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Well if your 15 years old you should have a curfew. But your missing the whole point of my comment.
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its not a bad thing to be attracted or even like this 21 year old but it can't happen because face it hes 21 your 15 that's a big difference hes an adult your a teenager im 16 but i wouldnt date a 21 year old....

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actually im taking that back if a beautiful 21 yearold girl wanted to date me im pretty sure i would do it..
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at risk of getting her in trouble with the law? even if it's consensual dating, it's still illegal in most countries.
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Dating isn't illegal. Its the sex, if they do end up having sex. Its not illegal for them to just date.
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Say what! call the police! He's a perv tell your dad! fast!

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I'm sure you are very lovely but the first thing you should ask yourself is why is a 21 year old man interested in a 15 year old girl?

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I think you should let him know that you're too young for him. If he doesn't listen, and tries to harass you, then call the cops.

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Police!!

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Wait until you are 18, then it's no problem.
You need to stop thinking about this and find a friend your age. This will end in disaster, broken heart for you.

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Stay away from him,He should be around someone his own age. He is up to no good if he is trying to be with you... & it is just going to get the cops to come if he comes around because he is way to old. Best thing to do is do not go near him

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I have dated someone with 7 years difference when I was 16... He was 22 our relationship lasted 2 years. If you love him go but make sure he is the right persone for you before getting serious with him. Also make sure both of u want the same things in life

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i dont want the same thing i want him to leave me alone
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If he txt or calls u don't answer. He will get bored of chasing something that will not happen and lose interest.
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stay away!!!!! never date someone that big of a difference at your age. plus it is illegal and he is probably a pedophile

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yeah i told him that and he said ''age is just a number baby'' ..
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I'm sorry he just sounds way to stechy. Honey, your too young for him
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yeah i know. i dont like him though
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then block him or tell him to back off
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Tell him you're not interested. Enjoy being with friends, and doing fun stuff. He's too much older than you for now. Maybe when you're older, if you even like him by then.

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Of course he likes you. If you have given him the time of day he sees you as easily seducable. Beware. Ask your mom and see what her reaction is.

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Well, I had the same problem when I was 15. What happened is that my folks allowed me to date him, and then he made the air force his career, so I hardly ever saw him but when he could he came back to see me, but a whole year would go by without hearing from him. In the mean time another guy 2 1/2 yrs. older went bananas over me. He was smart, good looking, and too clever. He got me pregnant so that I would be forced to marry him. Then just about the time I found out (or suspected) I was pregnant the other older one showed up. Believe me, I would have eloped with the older one. He had so much more class, so super nice, and kind and mature. The younger one was only interested in getting what he wanted for himself. So he saw a pretty girl he waned and went after her like crazy. My life was ruined, but finding Jesus helped me more than I could ever explain. Both men have died now, and the one who got me pregnant had numerous affairs and remarried twice before he died. Life goes on, but find Jesus and pray for God's will and do whatever he tells you to do. The older one could be the right one.

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Hay meet a new guy and show him your boyfriend and he will know that your taken.

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