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My ex still won't admit he cheated on me months ago when we were dating. Why is this?

I live abroad now & we weren't even exclusive at the time so I don't understand his reasoning. I feel like an idiot for talking to him when he still lies to me.

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He is your ex, why are you talking to him and if he is your ex why do you even care anymore.

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I still have feelings for him obviously that's why I'm posting this question. Sorry for that.
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He's just not that into you...sorry to have to say this.
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you cant help who you love and even when you break up with that person its still gona hurt knowing that someone else is in his arms trust me i know that all too well.
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He may feel ashamed...

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Well if he cheated and he's lying, why are you still with him?

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E-V!! Where are you?
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Hello! ^_^
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There you are! :D You done running around making fat girls mad?
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Lol!!
I got out of work and I'm exhausted!! :(
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Aww they made you work today? Bastards!! Am I keeping you awake? :P
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I've been working every day :(
And I work tomorrow. I should get some sleep *sighs*
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Poor E-V :( you should get some sleep. Figures its when I finally have time to talk...
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Yeah :'( I really miss being on here and talking to you and Monchie :/
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Monchie just came on, said she's busy and wont be around much then left already :( I cant remember the last time all three of us had time to talk....
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I know!! It's depressing.
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No notifications!! >:( Sorry E-V thought you went to bed already...(which you probably should)
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I know I should! Lol I bet I will in the next few minutes I jsut keep seeing new notification...
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Goodnight Scarface!! ^_^
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Goodnight E-V!! :D
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He is my ex. But I still care about him of course & wonder how he's doing becasue we used to be very close.
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Yea E-V! It clearly says they are not together so I'm taking my star back! :P

Believe me Nataly, you dont need to tell me or E-V what its like to deal with an ex lol...
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Perhaps he didnt cheat....

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if only....I got an email from his now current girlfriend & we compared dates & facts & he definately did at the very least lie about who & where he was spending a weekend.
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He may be angry, ashamed, or something else, at this point, arguing isn't really going to get anywhere, it will pretty much end in "Did not!" "Did too!" The best thing to do is probably just to ignore him, maybe when he's willing to admit he's cheated on you, then you can talk, but for the time, I think you just need to ignore him and move on.

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Wow! I think your exactly right actually.
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Why does it matter now? He's probably constantly denying it so you'll give in and actually believe him at some point. But, still, if you're not with him, why does it matter? Don't dwell on matters that shouldn't mean anything anymore. Good luck.

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he may not have cheated but if he did then maybe he still doesnt wont to hurt you like that or he dont have the man parts to man up about his mistakes.

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Because he is hoping you will get over it by now cuz he still having,feelings

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Maybe he didn't cheat. Also, is it cheating if you admit that you two weren't exclusive?

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True....I mean he lied to me about sleeping with someone else while we were seeing each other & I'm hurt he lied.
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What if... and I know this is crazy... What if he didn't cheat?!? :O

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I'm sure he did! The girl he cheated on me with compared facts & he def did
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Wow, y'all compared facts... Hmm... Interesting... I still don't think he cheated, if you knew, and y'all already broke up, he would of told.
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Maybe he feels guilty, or thinks you'll hate him.

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He doesn't want to let anyone know that he is in the wrong

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you answered that question yourself in you own questioning. You said you weren't even exclusive to each other at the time so therefore he wouldnt have been cheating. He was exploring his options.

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I think I misworded this question. I'm mad that he lied to me about sleeping with someone on a particular weekend when we were seeing each other. I think it would have been the right thing to do to tell me about it at least for the sake of my health if nothing else.
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He don't want a bad reputation. I have the same EXACT problem

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