I broke up with a guy 10 years ago.. almost to the day. Is it possible to still be in love with him?
We broke up 10 years ago.. almost to the day. He treated me really badly. We were kids... started dating at 16. On and off for 4 years... He was a big drinker and drug user. We have both since gotten married (he divorced shortly after) and I have 3 beautiful angels. He has straightened out... been in intense therapy, very highly ranked in the army. Completely different person. We have started to talk again... feelings have all rushed back. I have just returned from a visit with him, he lives 8 states away.. and Im very confused. I am still married to a man that says he loves me, but has a poor way of showing it. He is a very good man, no abuse, no problems, just no spark. We are more like roommates. The flame between my old boyfriend and myself is electric.. and now I dont know what to do. Any advice?