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What can I do to stop the goading of my sister?
She has become a bully and made public verbal threats to me.

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I think you should talk to your parents about it. Let them know how your sister is treating you and how far she has gone. They will in turn talk to her and she might change.

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davescat, thank you but, I am 58 my sister is 46 and my mother our only living parent is 76 so that will not work. My sister has become very vicious toward me and is attempting to convince my mother that I have been stealing from her which I have not. She is also attempting to convince other members of the family that I have stole from mother and that Ihave brain washed mother which I have not. It's a power struggle so that my sister can obtain control over my mother's estate. We have the same mother but different dad's. My mother was not married when she had me and never married my father.
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davecat, I'd also like to add that I do not want any of my mother's personal possessions. She raised all of us to be decent, respectable, hard working, God fearing Christians. She gave us all we need to survive and help others with. It's my reputation at stake here and I fear she will convince the authorities that I'm guilty of stealing from my elderly mother. She claims she's dug up some kind of 'dirt' on me of which I am not worried. It's her lies that I'm worried about. It's isolating mother from the rest of us which she has accomplished with two of us. I've stood strong for 35 years and never left my mother's side, I just hope I can survive the remainder of my mother's life as a free person and with my reputation in tact.
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Do u have parents. What is she goading u to do? Tell her to back off & pester someone else

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She's trying to provoke a publice fight with me. So far I've conducted myself like the lady my mother and grandmother raised me to be. She's trying to goad me into looking like the bad guy and I'm not.
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