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I'm in love with my friend.....

who is a doctor over in Tuva, Russia (tuva is a country taken over by Russia in 1944) and is in a famous band called Huun Huur Tu and he's 39 years old. I'm scared to tell him cause I'm afraid he will hate me or tell our friends. I'm 18 and I'm in love because he's always been kind to me and sweet. whenever we would message each other he always put smiley faces at the end of his messages. and when he saw on Facebook that I stood up for him and his country cause my church was being racist he was happy. I told him I did it because I loved them and he said he loved me along with everybody else. what should I do?

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Well, its worth him knowing then not knowing so take a chance, he might like you back but you never know. If I was you I'd tell him. I don't think he'd hate you for that

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You should try to meet boys close by who are closer in age to you. Don't waste time on guy who is having conversations with young girls at 40.

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She said 39. Just as well call him 60 if you're going to lie.
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tell him already,,,,woooooooooooooo I can already see you guys together,,,,you will be shocked that he was afraid of telling you too,,,,so tell him,,,if not for you ,,,then do it for the kids who still believe in love,,,, ;-)

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Let's review the facts: 1. You have never actually met this guy. 2. He is far away in a foreign country. 3. He is 20+ years older than you. To me these are a lot of obstacles to overcome in a relationship. A lot of relationships can barely overcome one of these to be successful. You have three.

To me, you have no idea what this person is like face to face. How much can you share in common when he is so much older? Also, how would you deal with a long distance relationship with someone from another country? Also, he hasn't given you any indication that he feels the same for you. He might just be a friendly and sweet guy to everybody and you might be mistaking it as love. I'm not saying that you can't be friends. However, go out and find someone your own age to be your boyfriend that you can actually meet and hang out with. You are still young and there are plenty of fish in the sea.

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Me and him been friends since i was 15 and me and him have the same friends who we both known for years but we didn't get introduced till later
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Have you actually met this man in person?
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You're a "groupie".
Very typical for teen girls to fall in love (crush on) older guys in bands ... or movie stars or athletes.
You're one of THOUSANDS of girls that's in love with him. Don't you know: he's married & has a family of his own.

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I was thinking the same thing
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We don't know if he is married
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