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Does she actually love me?

I have been with this amazing girl for two weeks tomorrow. The day before I asked her out, she said she loved me, and I said it back, and I actually meant it! The problem I'm having with believing her is that she is WAY too far out of my league. She ten leagues above mine, in the league that flips my league off. That's exaggerated though. But she is way too beautiful for somebody like me. We've kissed twice already, but she makes sure someone is blocking us from other people and she says she doesn't want to get in trouble. Now everyone of my friends are saying she's embarrassed to be with me. We say we love each other every single time we can, and just today, we got off a 2 minute phone call without saying "I love you" and she called me back one minute after just to say she did. I am so confused. I love her to death, but I'm not sure if she's feeling the same way and neither are my friends. Can someone help me out with this? Thanks

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Love isn't a feeling, its a choice. A choice to think of the person you love first, ALWAYS, to be willing to give up your dream to follow there's. Love is a lot more serious than people think. So LOVE? I'm not convinced that people(including your GF) know what it means. But LIKE? if she didn't like you why would she go out with you, but I do agree with PurpleDayana if she IS embarrassed of being with you she isn't worth it, you seem really nice(and based on your prfile pic you can shoot a bow and arrow which is totally cool)so you can do better than a person who is embarrassed, but if she isn't, don't pay any attention to your friends.

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P.s. if she isn't allowed to date y'all really shouldn't be
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Thanks. But I don't know if she is. She introduces me to her friends as her boyfriend. She isn't allowed to have a boyfriend because her father is strict, so she says she doesn't want him to find out so she has someone cover us when we kiss. And judging on what you said, yes I do love her.
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Yo, Jesus redhead, you have obviously never been in love! Love is not a feeling? That's absolute bs.
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I agree with john1008. It is a choice but its not like when you chose to do your math homework its choice to feel something for someone and hole-heartedly commit to them. Sorry Hunter but love in high school? Not to likely, but that's no excuse for how this girl treats you.
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She doesn't treat me bad. She just doesn't want to kiss in public because she says her dad might find out. And yes, love in high school. It doesn't matter how young you are, you can still feel love and know what it is. Even if your mind doesn't quite get it, your heart still does.
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girlygirl1771 hole-hearted commitment is exactly what I meant. Thanks for saying what I was trying to say but couldnt get it to come out the way I meant it :)
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If she's embarrassed of you she's not worthy of you. Love doesn't care about leagues She does care about them, that's not love. Love shouldn't be hidden in public.

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I'm asking if you think she is. Everyone says she is, but she says she isn't. I trust her, but what others are saying is piercing me through my skull and making me dangerously curious.
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I think she likes you in a way, but she seems to embarrassed to be with you. People like that aren't worth your time. I know you say you love her but you will love someone even more who loves you back.

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Ok. But what I'm wondering is why is she even with me and introduces me to her friends as her boyfriend if she's embarrassed?
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I think in a way she is, she likes and wants to be with you. She thinks your fun to hang out with but when it comes to being popular she probably thinks that you don't make her look that way. In other words yes she likes you but not enough to be comfortable with you in front of popular people.
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It's mainly in front of teachers that she doesn't want to be seen kissing me and she's not that popular, I'm talking with looks, I'm less than average (or so I think), and she is just stunning. She has a lot of people that don't like her because of rumors that I know aren't true, and she's nervous that they'd tell on her.
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Then I think she likes you she just doesn't want people to judge her (in a wrong and untrue way) and spread more rumors.
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The fact that she said that she doesn't want to get in trouble does bother me for you. In trouble from whom? Ask her that one for sure. Cause if she cannot kiss you in front of anyone then that is a sign that either she is too young to be kissing you or she is taken. Other than that sounds like ya'll are definitely in love. Cause she took time to call you back and tell you she loved you. Don't ever listen to your friends about her you ask her and don't ask us either you ask her. She knows the answer to what you are asking.

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She's not too young, we're both in high school. She just doesn't want her Dad to find out because he doesn't allow her to date. And thanks.
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Ah hah! Then that is exactly why she has someone cover ya'll so he cannot see ya'll kiss. She is in love with you and you should not question her. I bet it would disappoint her to know that you are asking us here about this.Like I said do not even believe your friends. This girl loves you alot. And you know that! Believe in ya'lls love.
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Haha thanks man. I know she does, but this little btch is telling me she doesn't. It's my self esteem talking I guess
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Thanks man or girl? I don't know, I saw your username and didn't know what your sex is. So thanks anyways
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That is why I am telling you from a girls point of view, don't ever ever listen to anyone tell you that she does not love you. She does. She is taking many chances to kiss you and let you know and call you back cause she does love you. Love cannot be stopped by anyone not even her Dad. Soon, I bet she'll find a way to introduce you to him. Cause my thought is she is just figuring out how. But ya'll are young, so take your time and be sweet to each other and dont listen to others who try to take your happiness away.
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Thanks. That helps a lot
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I really hope so. Cause this guy that I am just crazy for keeps listening to other gals, his family and guys tell him stuff about me. It's just what they think cause they don't want him with me. And some of those guys actually want me to be in love with them. My heart only wants him. But he has made the same mistake that I hopefully am getting you to stop making. He is torn between what others say and what I show him and tell him. So, please don't ditch like he sometimes does me. And me? I think I am done trying to make him understand that I love him.
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I think she like you but your not her type what other people to be expected to be around so she is afraid what they might say. You GO AND TELL HER IF YOUR TO EMBARRSSED BY ME ITS OVER IM SORRY :( wait that mean but the truth hurts. If she doesn't come back then she didn't really love you like that sorry to say she shouldn't be worried though

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Age difference? She's 14 I'm 14. I'm 8 months older than her though.
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Wow okay
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